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Savage Lovecast Episode 818

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 28 June 2022

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

A gay Irishman had a terribly unpleasant experience, when the man he was screwing twerked and gyrated until it felt like his dick was about to fall off. Is this a thing that’s happening? Or only on the Emerald Isle? A singer is worried that rough oral sex could harm her vocal cords. But she shouldn’t worry because Dan somehow roped in Jamie Barton, a very delightful mezzo-soprano opera singer to offer her professional reassurance. On the Magnum, Dan chats with former ugly duckling, current total hottie comedian David Drake. They talk about mining your personal life for comedic material, and whether getting jacked at a massage parlor constitutes cheating. Fun! And, a caller is convinced that some bad actors are hiding behind the poly label to justify cheating. Is she right? She just might be right! (She’s right.) [email protected] 206-302-2064 There are 2 more days to take advantage of our half off sale for new subscribers to the Magnum. Go to Savage.Love and enter the promo code: SavagePride 2022 This episode is brought to you by Hung Up-an original podcast about sex love and relationships, from Headspace hosted by Shan Boodram. Search for Hung Up in your podcast player. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love Cast at Savage.lo.

0:23.0

In 1986, in Bowers V. Hardwick, the Supreme Court of Health State Anti-Satime Laws,

0:28.9

it's a Supreme Court rule that there was no constitutional right to engage in homosexual acts,

0:34.6

and that states, good man, gay sex, and arrest gay men.

0:39.6

The details, the actual case is infuriating. A bigoted Atlanta cop with a personal beef against a

0:44.7

gay bartender went to that bartender's apartment to serve an invalid warrant and walked into that

0:51.0

guy's bedroom where he was having sex with his boyfriend at the time. He arrested them both on the

0:56.4

spot for violating Georgia's anti-Satime statute. The Bowers decision said that that cop had

1:02.8

every right to do so. That gay men did not have a right to privacy. That Georgia had every right

1:08.9

to throw gay men in prison for having sex with each other. Prison, where as David Letterman joked

1:14.9

on the night the Bowers decision came down, prison, where no one ever has gay sex.

1:19.9

I had to wait a whole day to read the actual decision. It was 1986, so it wasn't online right away

1:25.6

because there was no online. I was at a rehearsal the next day, and rehearsal came to a stop

1:32.6

when someone carried in a pile of newspapers. The New York Times published the decision in full.

1:38.8

The room went silent as everyone read. Some of us wept. All of us were furious. We were being told

1:47.4

by the Supreme Court by our own government again that our bodies were our own,

1:52.8

that we couldn't make our own choices about our own bodies, that we remained second class

1:58.9

citizens. It was devastating. Last week, devastating news from that same court, that we knew this was

2:08.5

coming, somehow didn't make the news, any less devastating. In Dobbsville, Jackson Women's Health

2:14.8

Organization, the Supreme Court of Health Mississippi's 15-week abortion ban and overturned

2:20.1

Roe v. Wade. In their dissent, the three liberal justices still on the court said the decision

2:25.4

in Dobbs consigned women to second class citizenship, or reconsigned them. American women are less

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