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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 791

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 21 December 2021

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Happy Solstice everyone, who’s up for some label salad? A cassgendered (look it up- we did,) demi, pan person has a partner who was assigned male at birth but is taking hormones to be more feminine. The partner feels non-gendered, and enjoys having both a penis and breasts. But they feel they have to present as male because they live in a conservative area. They are only attracted to women, and wonders what label to use when filling out dating profiles.  A bi woman met a man on an app, who lives in another town. He came to visit, and brought a woman with him so they could all have a three-way. It went great, but the caller grooved with the woman much more than the man. Tragically, she failed to get her contact info. When they parted the man cut off all contact and is effectively twat-blocking the caller from reaching out to the gal. It’s an outrage! No one can bring the holiday cheer quite like our favorite dominatrix, Mistress Matisse! She is on to answer questions from listeners who are considering getting into sex work. Is it a good idea? Some of it is on the Micro and all of it is on the Magnum.  And, a woman has been having casual sex with a man half her age. Sweet! But there’s a hitch. He is engaged to be wed to a woman his parents have arranged for him. He wants to honor the family and go through with the marriage, though he would much rather be with the caller. Should she leave him alone and let him get on with it, or keep screwing him because life is short? This episode is brought to you by Pill Club: the birth control subscription that is delivered right to your door. Get a special care package with your first delivery. Go to www.thepillclub.com/Savage. Today’s Lovecast is brought to you by MeUndies.com: High quality, super-comfortable, good looking undies. Get 15% off your first order when you go to MeUndies.com/Savage. This episode of the Savage Lovecast is sponsored by OMGyes.com: a website dedicated to getting scientific truths out about women’s sexual pleasure. Savage Lovecast listeners can get a discount if they go to OMGYES.com/Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

0:05.0

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.4

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:23.0

Hey, we've got a great show for you today.

0:24.7

One of my favorite longtime regular guest drops in.

0:28.0

But first, uh, the opening of the show, I couldn't pick just one topic for the opening

0:32.4

of this week's show.

0:33.8

So think of this as a pre-Christmas clearance rant.

0:36.7

The Chris Noth or no sexual assaultations, which are horrible, didn't ruin the Sex and the City reboot for me because I wasn't watching the Sex and the City reboot because I didn't watch the original Sex and the City series or the movies.

0:50.3

I am not casting aspersions on anyone who liked the show or loved the show and still loves it.

0:57.1

I have admitted publicly to binge watching 90-day fiancé.

1:01.0

I am in no position to judge or shame anyone for their television preferences.

1:06.2

Some good news for sex workers.

1:07.7

The Supreme Court last week ruled that sex workers must be treated like all

1:11.1

other workers and citizens, same legal rights, protected by the same labor laws, full legal

1:16.4

recognition, full benefits. But yeah, this was the Supreme Court of India that handed down that

1:22.6

ruling last week. We can expect much less and much worse from our Supreme Court. Joe Manchin. Fuck Joe

1:30.3

Manchin. I want that on a flag. Can I get that on a flag? Whereas waving stupid and insulting

1:35.1

flags around only okay if you're a Republican. Billy Eilish. Oh, God, she was so, so good on Saturday

1:42.5

night live a couple of weeks ago. So funny. She killed it.

1:46.5

If she wasn't already one of the biggest pop stars in the world, they should make her a cast member.

1:50.9

And she went straight from S&L, as you may have heard, to the Howard Stern show where she had some

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