Savage Lovecast Episode 1014

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 April 2026

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

A happily married lesbian is super turned-on by a male acquaintance's cologne. She barely knows the guy. So how can she ask him "What are you WEARING?" Here's a conundrum: a sub serves two different masters. So what should she do when they give her conflicting orders? On the Magnum, everybody loves Doc Chocolate! The former pastor turned porn star, adult educator and content creator is back to help Dan answer a question about use of the potentially problematic term "BBC." (Look it up.) Is it a positive stereotype? Or negative? They also talk about the rigorous STI health protocols Las Vegas sex workers must adhere to. And, a listener challenges Dan's stance on how much responsibility the blow job giver has once the lucky receiver is "over the falls." Your only duty...is to call us. 206-302-2064 Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From cuckolding to crossdressing, polyamory to asexuality and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:05.1	If you're under 18, get out of here, young and.
0:08.6	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,
0:12.4	or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:18.0	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:26.2	I asked the sex scandal gods at the top of the show last week not to break news on Tuesday afternoons,
0:32.7	after my show for the week is already out, and they delivered.
0:36.7	But I'm not celebrating. It's the curse of
0:39.6	the answered prayer around here today. Backing up, you may recall that they, the sex scandal gods,
0:45.3	broke the news about former DHS head, Christy Nome's husband, Brian Nome's, bimbobification fetish,
0:51.1	on a Tuesday afternoon two weeks ago, hours after my show for the week had gone out.
0:56.2	And by the time I got to have my say a week later, there wasn't much left to be said.
1:01.2	I mean, I could say more right now because more has come out.
1:05.9	Well, I thought Brian Nome might be Pud, Polly underdress, or a cock, or both before the scandal broke. I mean,
1:12.9	there had to be a reason he stayed while his wife so publicly strayed with Trump political
1:18.0	fixer and world-class asshole, Corey Lewandowski. And I thought Brian might be staying for the
1:24.1	humiliation, not despite it. But we all know now that Brian definitely has a
1:28.9	humiliation kink. He paid sex workers tens of thousands of dollars to humiliate him. But I don't
1:35.3	think Christy Nome has a humiliation kink. So I can't imagine she's going to stay now that we've all
1:42.3	read transcripts of the conversations Brian was having
1:45.1	with sex workers. While Christy was on television, trash-talking American citizens who'd been
1:51.2	murdered by her goons at DHS, men who still have jobs and guns, men whose names we still don't
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