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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 1010

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 17 March 2026

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

A kinky, submissive woman's last relationship went down in flames when her dom insisted on a power exchange, all-the-damn-time lifestyle. She is raising kids and caring for her sick father. She doesn't have time for this kind of commitment. How can she set reasonable boundaries in the future? A married man despairs that he'll never kiss his wife again. Smooching is central to his experience of sexual pleasure, and the wife is repulsed by it. Sounds grim. Speaking of kissing, on the Magnum, it's a "What You Got?" with Dr. Matilda Brindle. The evolutionary biologist recently published a paper looking at whether early primates or even Neanderthals kissed. They also talk about kink in the animal kingdom, which leads to the story of one very freaky monkey. Do not miss this. Pay attention. And, a woman humble-braggingly wonders if OTHER women come 60-70 times per session she like does. 72,73, 74... Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now.  This episode  is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. This episode is sponsored by Sundays for Dogs- Dog food using the same ingredients and care you’d use to cook for yourself and your family. Go to sundaysfordogs.com/SAVAGE50 and get 50% off your first order. Or, you can use code SAVAGE50 at checkout. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to multiple orgasms, trans rights to asexuality and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since Neanderthals were kissing up on peeps.

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0:00.0

Hey, this is Dan Savage. Thank you for listening to me, answer your sex and relationship questions.

0:04.6

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0:15.8

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0:21.2

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0:26.7

Anything you can contribute helps us keep this show going and hopefully make it great and pleasing

0:30.8

to you and your eardrums every week.

0:33.4

That's Savage.com.

0:34.3

That's Savage.com.

0:34.4

Thank you.

0:37.0

You're listening to The Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.

0:42.3

If you're under 18, get out of here, young un.

0:46.0

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:55.4

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

1:04.0

I should have watched the Oscars this weekend.

1:06.7

I didn't.

1:07.4

I never watched the Oscars.

1:09.2

Not even the prospect of Connor and Hudson walking the red carpet could get me to watch.

1:13.6

And I should have watched that new documentary on Netflix about the toxic male influencers

1:17.5

out there poisoning the brains of our boys inside the manosphere by BBC Documentarian and Cultural

1:23.2

Critic Lewis Thoreau.

1:25.8

And I want to watch it and I will and you should too especially if you

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