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We moved out here together.

Basically, my problem is this.

After a week of fighting, he went out and pulled around with one of our friends on me.

This just happened two nights ago.

He told me about it the next morning right away.

We had been having problems for a while,

and he'd been having a lot more problems than I was really aware of,

mainly due to the fact that he doesn't work as much as he'd like to.

It's taken him, you know, four years to find a part-time job that he really likes.

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