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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 598

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2018

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

The kindly mother of a 12 year-old boy wonders if she should discreetly leave some lube by his bed as he learns to love him himself fully. A woman is horrified to discover that her hook-up doesn't have sheets on the bed. "The bed is no good," she laments. Should she see him again? Is there a fix here? Dan and the mighty Mistress Matisse revisit the horrifying SESTA/FOSTA bill snaking its way into law. This bill will be devastating to sex workers and the internet in general. Please follow #LetUsSurvive onTwitter and learn about this latest nasty piece of legislation. In much happier news, a caller who formerly suffered from Death Grip Syndrome, has made a full recovery, thanks to Dan's proven therapy program. 206-302-2064 This episode of the Savage love cast is brought to you by Everlane: Luxury basic clothing and accessories, made at ethical factories without those retail markups. For free shipping, and to support the Lovecast, go to This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, at , and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. ThredUP is the world’s largest online thrift store with over 35,000 brands at up to 90% off retail price. Get an extra 30% off your first order at

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:13.8

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.6

I get a lot of email.

0:26.4

I rarely read emails on the Savage Lovecast.

0:30.0

Emails for the column, Savage Love, for the Savage Love Letter of the day.

0:33.5

But I wanted to read this email.

0:36.1

We're going to be talking later in the show with Mistress Matisse about Sesta, a new law passed by Congress, not yet signed by Donald Trump as of this recording, that holds websites criminally liable for ads posted to them by people doing sex work and lumps all people doing sex work into the sex trafficking victim

0:55.6

category, whether someone is doing sex work of their own free will or not. After Sestimated

1:01.7

out of Congress, even before Trump signed it into the law, which everyone expects him to do,

1:06.0

probably this week, Craigslist pulled down its personal ads. Craigslist had already pulled down its

1:12.3

escorting ads. And shortly after Craigslist pulled down its personal ads, Backpage was seized

1:18.6

and shuttered by the federal government. Backpage is a classified site where people did

1:24.7

advertise to do sex work. And I got an email after Backpage was yanked down

1:29.2

just yesterday, and I wanted to share it with all of you, particularly with anyone out there

1:34.1

who thinks that everyone doing sex work is a victim of trafficking who needs to be saved or rescued,

1:40.1

particularly anyone who thinks that it is a good thing that websites where escorts could advertise their

1:46.8

services are being yanked down. Dear Dan, I have been doing body rubs for a dozen years or so now,

1:54.1

advertising first on Craigslist, then on Backpage. With no way for new clients to find me now,

2:00.7

I'm desperately afraid I'll be homeless soon.

2:03.3

I give hand jobs for a living. I don't take my clothes off or let them touch me on the front.

2:08.6

I maintain an office in a nice building for safety and professionalism, but now the rug has been

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