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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 540

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 February 2017

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

A woman's 61 year-old father confided that he has discovered kink. Should she help to connect him to kink resources when she herself is vanilla, and also...his daughter? A man worries that his attraction to East-Indian women might be racist. Dan helps unpack the complicated issues around attraction to specific races. On the Magnum, Dan talks with Randi Kreger, author and expert on Borderline Personality Disorder about dating someone with this unpleasant condition. And, all hail the Cuck-Queen!  Dan chats with a woman who gets off on her husband sleeping with other women. Dan instructs her on the alchemical art of turning jealousy into lust. 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by , makers of award-winning pleasure products for couples.  Go to We-Vibe.com and use promo code SAVAGE. This episode of the Savage Lovecast is also brought to you by : luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to  and enter Savage. Today’s episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron. the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to .

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

well, there's nothing you can't pass on on Savage Lovecast.

0:24.6

I don't have to tell you guys who Harvey Milk is, but just in case, gay man elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors, San Francisco City Council in 1977, led the successful fight against an anti-gay ballot initiative backed by Anita Bryant, who was then

0:39.1

America's most prominent and really effective anti-gay bigot slash activist, and then Harvey

0:45.3

was murdered, assassinated in 1978. Anyway, I wanted to open this week's show with a clip,

0:50.9

a clip from Milk's most famous speech, his hope speech. It's a long clip

0:55.4

for the top of the show. It's about two minutes long, but I think it's worth it, and I hope

0:59.4

you'll indulge me. Somewhere in Des Moines or San Antonio was a young gay person, where all of a sudden

1:06.6

realizes that here he is gay, knows that if the parents find out, they'll be tossed out of the

1:13.1

house, the classmates would taunt the child, and the Anita Bryans and John Briggs are doing their

1:20.3

bit on TV, and that child had several options, staying in a closet, suicide,

1:29.7

and then one day that child might open a paper and says homosexual elected in San Francisco

1:32.2

and there are two new options.

1:34.6

The option is to go to California.

1:42.8

Stay in San Antonio and fight.

1:45.6

Two days after I was elected, I got a phone call, and the voice was quite young.

1:51.6

It was from Altoona, Pennsylvania, and the person said, thanks.

1:57.6

And you've got to elect gay people so that that young child and the thousands upon thousands

2:03.6

like that child know that there's hope for a better world, there's hope for a better

2:11.6

tomorrow, without hope, not only gays, but those blacks, the Asians, the disabled, seniors, the uses, the uses, without hope, the usses, give up.

2:28.9

I know that you cannot live on hope alone, but without it, life is not worth living. And you, and you and you, you've got to give

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