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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 449

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 2 June 2015

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

The complicated nature of abusive relationships: Dan speaks with Seattle author Jason Schmidt about his memoir A List of Things That Didn’t Kill Me, a raw, honest look at the mix of neglect, abuse and fierce love in his own upbringing. You should buy this book, and then read it.  Also, a gay man is about to go to drama school at a conservative Christian college. Should he stay in the closet just long enough to graduate and then begin the lifelong project of exacting his revenge? On the Magnum, a straight man is friends with a transwoman. Once she got her surgery, she’s suddenly super-hot to the caller. Is it time to make a move? And, breast milk: It’s not just for babies anymore! 206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you byHarrys.com. Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Dan"when you check out. This episode is also brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% discount and free web domain registration.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.1

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Mubcast.

0:24.6

So I was just in Vienna with my husband, Terry, and we were running around town and having a really great time.

0:30.9

And there's this amazing system of trams that go all over the city of Vienna.

0:36.0

Trams and in Ubon, they have a subway.

0:37.8

But they have these trams that just can take you anywhere and everywhere that you need to go. There's two things I want to share with you about the trams. First, everywhere we went, Terry called them trammies. Like, we're going to jump on a trammie. And I kept worried that we would be glittered by transportation activists if he kept that up. The second thing was how inexpensive riding the trams there is.

0:59.0

It's 365 euros to buy a year-long pass to ride the trams and the Ubon and the Espan

1:05.2

and the regional railroad system all over Vienna.

1:09.0

That's a buck a day.

1:09.9

Here in Seattle, it costs 250 or 275 to ride

1:13.6

the bus one way. So five or six bucks to go round trip on the bus in a day. In Vienna and

1:21.2

Austria, this beautiful system of trams and Ubonns, anywhere you want to go all over the region, a buck a day, basically, a euro a day.

1:30.8

And it is this way because socialism, also because direct democracy, because one man, one vote,

1:38.8

because they don't have really an anti-democratic system in the ways that we do where, for instance, we have this

1:45.9

thing called the Senate, where every state gets two senators, California, which has 40 million

1:51.0

residents, 40 million citizens in California, two senators, South Dakota, 850,000 residents,

1:58.6

two senators, just the same as California.

2:01.4

The Senate is really this anti-democratic institution that gives small states and rural voters a bigger say in the direction of the country and our policies than they deserve than any sort of representative democracy would normally and typically allow.

2:21.7

And this really does distort American politics in huge and consequential ways.

2:27.6

We don't really have an urban party, right?

2:31.2

The Democrats should be the party of urban America.

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