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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 441

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 7 April 2015

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

This week, we are delighted to welcome Dr. Kara Cadwallader from Planned Parenthood to answer a backlog of medical questions about herpes, meningitis, IUDs and the good ole flu.  When you cheat and cheat and cheat, is it time to call yourself poly?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with writer, journalist, and transgender woman Parker Molloy, about seeking the understanding and acceptance of family members when dating a trans person.  And, a gay man wants to try a threeway with a woman included. Does he have to turn in his gay card?  And MORE.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl, and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% discount and free web domain registration. The Savage Lovecast is also sponsored by SmartMouth Activated Mouthwash. SmartMouth blocks bad breath for 12 hours. Get SmartMouth at your local drugstore and keep your breath fresh. This episode is also brought to you by Audible. Download a free audiobook of your choice today at

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

well, there's nothing you can't last on Savage Lovecast.

0:23.6

Gell Collins writes an op-ed column for the New York Times.

0:27.6

Gal Collins is not bad columnist in New York Times, and she is terrific and if you're not reading her, you should start.

0:32.6

She had one this weekend on Saturday in Saturday's paper titled, and now Political Virgins.

0:37.8

There's so much stupid that Gall unpackes in this column. I really can't cover it all.

0:42.9

It starts in Texas where a state legislator is forcing the state to move $3 million

0:48.4

that had been set aside for HIV prevention and treating other sexually transmitted diseases,

0:53.5

taking that money from those

0:55.0

effective programs and wasting it on abstinence-only sex education.

1:00.6

Despite the fact that abstinence-only sex education doesn't work, despite the fact that Texas

1:05.5

already spends millions of dollars on abstinence-only sex ed, and California, which spends nothing

1:10.7

on abstinence-only, has an And California, which spends nothing on abstinence only,

1:11.9

has an STI infection rate and HIV infection rate, half as large as Texas is. So Texas is going

1:18.6

to keep doing what it's doing even though it's not working. That's the stupid that she starts

1:22.7

with. But she unpacked so much stupid in this column. And she brings up something that puts into perspective a number I tossed out here on the

1:29.8

Lovecast a couple of weeks ago.

1:31.4

I said there were 100 anti-gay laws, anti-queer laws, anti-trans, bathroom laws, moving through

1:37.3

various Republican-dominated state legislatures all across the country.

1:41.2

And in this really brilliant column where gal pivots from stupid to stupid to stupid to

1:45.3

stupid to make an important point, she gets to these anti-gay laws and the fact that Indiana and

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