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It doesn't take much digging online to find articles written by social conservatives and right-wing fundamentalist evangelical bat-shit Christians attacking me for the threat that I allegedly pose to the institution

of marriage.

And all married gay people also pose the institution of marriage because we are less likely

we gay couples to be strictly monogamous, less successfully monogamous.

They often say, I would say we are more successfully non-monogamous, particularly when we

are non-monogamous in our long-term relationships, and they work and we stay together and we are non-monogamous, particularly when we are non-monogamous in our long-term

relationships and they work and we stay together and we are non-monogamous.

But I'm a big threat to the sacred institution of marriage because I sometimes talk about

non-monogamy because you can listen to the show and hear from people who are not necessarily

monogamous and their relationships are working for them.

But also frequently I am attacked by religious conservatives, social conservatives, because of kink.

Because I will write about non-normative, non-penes and vagina desires, even in the context of a committed relationship.

And encourage people, say it with me, if you're a long-term listener to the show, encourage people to be GGG, to be understanding, maybe to step outside their comfort zones to accommodate and indulge a partner, not to step into a trauma zone to accommodate or indulge a partner, but to, you know, maybe go there, maybe expand your sexual repertoire.

And the science eventually caught up

with me and showed that people who went on sexual journeys and were G, G, G, G, actually reported

greater levels of relationship satisfaction over the long term, not just the person being

indulged in whatever it was that turned them on, but the person who was doing the indulging.

They reported higher levels of relationship satisfaction, sexual the person who was doing the indulging, they reported higher levels of relationship

satisfaction, sexual transformations. That was what the study was up. People who had transformed

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