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Hey, welcome to another installment of the Savage Lovecast.

My name is Dan Savage, and the Savage Lovecast, of course, is the out loud phone-in version of my weekly sex advice column savage love the phone number here

if you want to call and leave a question for a future podcast 206 201 2720 and of course you

download the savage lovecast every week at www.w.com slash savage let's not around. Let's get right to the calls.

What's up, Dan? I am a 25-year-old gigai living in one of those big gay mecas over on the

East Coast. I am just recently out of a very serious two-year relationship, which was good

for the most part, though very vanilla, very tame.

I had a hell of a lot more of a sex drive than he did,

and I'm sort of glad to have that behind me.

Now that I am sort of out in the world,

I'm interested in really experimenting and going out there.

And I've discovered that I have a particular fetish for spanking.

I've met a couple guys online. It's always

been sort of just okay. What's sort of interesting is I'm not into leather, not my thing.

Don't like the leather daddy thing. Don't like the, you know, eagle bar, mustache, goatee.

That's not my deal.

I have no need to see a guy in leather chaps or anything like that.

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