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Hey, this is Dan Savage, and you have successfully downloaded the Savage Love Podcast.

The number here, if you want to record a question for a future podcast, 206, 201, 2720. And the Savage Love podcast or Savage Love live or

Aral Savage Love or whatever the fuck we're calling it is of course the out loud version of my

once a week sex advice column Savage Love, but with a whole different stream of questions because

people call and record and I record answers and then we put it up on

the website and you download it at www.the stranger.com and we do it once a week whether we like it or not.

So here we go. Let's get to the fucking questions. Hi. My name is Aaron and I'm the mother of a small

child and you're the most sex positive person I know or have heard of it.

I don't actually know you and I know you have a kid too.

So I'm just wondering how you deal with and what your advice is for dealing with like your child sexuality.

Like my kid is constantly telling you things that were open, and I've worked really hard for him,

for it not to be a shame thing, you know,

for him to be comfortable with his body, et cetera.

And he's just constantly telling me things about, like,

him and his little girlfriend, like,

found out what it's like to kiss each other's booty.

Today he told me he knows how to nurse his penis.

And I'm working really hard at keeping a straight face and emphasizing, like to kiss each other's booty. Today he told me he knows how to nurse his penis.

And I'm working really hard at keeping a straight face and emphasizing,

okay, these things are private, but not bad, et cetera.

However, like, it freaks me the fuck out and I don't know the best way to deal with this calmly.

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