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It's John.

So here is my thing.

I think I'm a pretty, you know, interesting, good-looking guy. I've got a lot of action. I can get a lot of game. I can, people like me, you know, attractive women. But I really want to date these porn stars. But I don't really know who they are. you know, I don't know how to approach them because you can't just send an email and say,

oh, I think you're hot.

I saw your movie.

And so what is it? But I don't really know who they are. You know, I don't know how to approach them because you can't just send an email and say,

oh, I think you're hot.

I saw your movie.

And so what is the approach for a set you think that you're capable of dating a porn star?

They don't really know any.

Like, how do you go about approaching these people that you don't really know?

Always nice to hear from the attractive, mature, deep, balanced, whole, straight guys.

Good to hear that you're good looking. You get action. You get a lot of game, as the straight boys say.

But if you want to date porn stars, you know, there's no porn star dating site or service.

It's a matter of, like they say, for real estate, location, location, location. You know, if you want to date a barista, you might want to work at fucking Starbucks. If you want to date a waitress, you might want to go, if you want to date waitress says, you might want to go fucking get a job in a restaurant or better yet own a restaurant. You know, if you want to date a congressman, then there's the congressional page program.

You really have to put yourself in the proximity of the people that you want to date.

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