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So there's this show. It's called Gossip Girl.

And I am old and out of touch, and I've never seen it despite Chase Crawford being particularly attractive.

I've still never tuned in.

But I read about it on Gawker all the time because Gawker is always all over the gossip girls.

Anyway, one of them, Taylor Momson, which is a hard name to say. Taylor Momsen is in a bit of trouble with the religious rite because she said in an interview months ago that her vibrator was her best friend and she's only 17.

17-year-old girls aren't supposed to have vaginas,

much less vibrators. Anyway, she gave an interview earlier this month to The Guardian where she gave

what I thought was some pretty excellent sex advice for a 17 year old. And I wanted to relay it

to all of you out there in the podcast listening land. quoted in the guardian is saying i'm a promoter

of masturbation she likes to tell young girls don't sleep around learn yourself first guys do but girls

don't and that's why girls have so many bad experiences but you can know your body know yourself

know what feels good you don't have to give yourself. Don't quite like that formulation because you get yourself back. You're more like a loner than a gift. But anyway, you don't have to give yourself away just to have the sexual relevance. Because I don't think sex is something people should be afraid of. It's part of human nature. Blah, blah, blah. Good advice for the girls. Most boys, all boys, masturbate and have been masturbating for years before their first

experience with big time all grown up now, partnered sex.

Boys have a basic understanding of how their own genitals work, what feels good, what the

buildup to orgasm feels like. They know when

they're getting close, when they're past that point of no return. They know what a good orgasm

feels like versus a bad orgasm. Well, there are no bad orgasms. There are just greater and lesser

orgasms, but no bad ones, except for that one that Levi had in Bristol. Maybe that was a bad one.

But that was the exception that proves the rule that there are no bad orgasms, except, of course,

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