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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 217

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Society & Culture

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 December 2010

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

"It's not you. I'm just not ready for a relationship." How should a man deal with these crazy-making words? A woman used to be a bit of a slut. Now she's monogamous with her man. But the man keeps obsessing about her past. How can they build trust? Don't you hate it when your new boyfriend has a crazy girlfriend that he's recently impregnated?    Jealousy. It's what's for dinner.   206-201-2720   Today's episode is brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.  Click here: http://j.mp/SavageAdamEve   Check out Dan's It Gets Better Project

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0:00.0

You're listening to a Stranger podcast, www.com.

0:05.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:25.6

So Prop 8.

0:28.7

Supreme Court in California declared gay marriage, a constitutional right.

0:32.7

The voters went to the ballot boxes and by relatively slim margin banned same-sex marriage in California.

0:40.3

There was a trial.

0:41.5

A judge ruled that the ban was unconstitutional, overturned decision, legalized same-sex marriage.

0:47.1

That's being appealed, so it's on hold.

0:49.3

And so the appeal was a couple weeks ago.

0:52.1

And there was an interesting thing that was said by the attorney defending

0:56.1

Prop A, defending the ban on same-sex marriage in California and all over the world because he's been

1:02.3

defending the theory of it. So it's not just for California that same-sex marriage is evil and bad and

1:06.3

needs to be banned. But of course, all throughout the known universe. Anyway, Charles Cooper is the

1:12.0

attorney, and he argued, and I'm going to quote from an NPR story here, that same-sex couples

1:17.0

can be treated differently when it comes to marriage without running afoul of the Constitution

1:20.7

because, quoting Charles Cooper now, sexual relationships between men and women naturally produced

1:26.8

children, unless, of course, the man's fucking er in the ass, but we're going to leave that alone for now. And then Sexual relationships between men and women naturally produce children.

1:31.0

Unless, of course, the man's fucking er in the ass, but we're going to leave that alone for now.

1:35.7

And then he went on, society has no particular interest in a platonic relationship between a man and a woman,

1:39.6

no matter how close it might be or emotional relationships between other people.

1:42.0

That would be the queers as well.

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