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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 161

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2009

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

After a drunken, seedy hookup with an alleged straight man, a gay man wonders if he should follow up. Will he still love him tomorrow? For a couple who suffers from recurrent miscarriages, sex = death. Sharing butt plugs: How do you do it safely? And more. Always more. Call us at 206-302-2064. Today's episode is brought to you by Adam & Eve. Receive 50% off most any item, when you enter "Savage" at check-out: http://j.mp/SavageAdamEve

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0:00.0

You're listening to a Stranger podcast, www.com.

0:05.8

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Podcast.

0:24.9

So we've got a few calls from people who were wondering why last week's podcast included no rant about what went down in Maine on Election Day,

0:31.4

where voters vetoed through the people's veto, a referendum process in Maine, a gay marriage law that had recently

0:38.5

passed by the legislature and been signed by Maine's governor. Well, it was because we recorded a show

0:44.1

in advance because I was going to be, you know, laid up. It sounds like more fun than it is.

0:51.8

And so we didn't know the results of the vote by the time we were recorded, at the time we recorded last week. So now we know. And now it's a couple weeks later. No one really wants to hear about it anymore. But just quickly and briefly, uh, it really sucks. Doesn't it? Really sucks. Democratic National Committee didn't lift a finger. Barack Obama didn't lift a finger. Matt at them. Matt at the voters in Maine. Some good news, of course, on Election Day.

1:13.2

Voters in Washington State voted to approve the states everything but marriage, domestic

1:18.4

partnership law, and a very similar campaign was waged in Washington State to the one

1:22.7

waged in Maine, arguing why, you know, to protect children and families from gay anal rape assemblies at schools.

1:29.9

It had the law had to be rescinded.

1:31.7

And an openly gay woman was the top vote getter in the run in the race for mayor of Houston, Texas.

1:39.5

A city of North Carolina got its first openly gay male mayor.

1:42.4

And voters in the city of Kalamazoo voted to

1:45.0

approve that city's gay civil rights law. So it was sort of a mixed bag on election day for

1:52.2

all us homos with some good signs and bad signs. Once again, gay marriage is the big trip up.

1:59.3

Large majorities of Americans support gays and lesbians having all the same legal rights

2:04.0

as same-sex couples, but clearly, even to this day, a majority of Americans do not support

2:10.6

gay people having the magic syllables, mayor, edge, which is why we don't typically put

2:15.8

the civil rights of minorities up to a vote.

2:18.7

If we had put interracial marriage on the ballot across the country, when that was declared

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