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Now about last week's show.

For those of you paying attention, that show was March 17th show.

That was St. Patrick's Day show. And I forgot to mention at the very top that we were in honor of St. Patrick's Day, as I am Irish, completely fucking shit-faced when we recorded that episode. So you know what? I'm so drunk. I was so drunk. I can't even remember a goddamn word I said. So I apologize that if the

show was offensive, if I said anything really stupid or obnoxious, or if I gave terrible advice,

and it wasn't my usual, brilliant, sophisticated, completely retarded self. We're going to get

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Hey, Dan.

I'm a 30-year-old gay man.

I just recently started to date this guy who makes me happy and who I enjoy spending a lot of time with. The problem is that my best friend also has been

with this guy before and has hung out with him and developed feelings for him. This guy never showed romantic interest in him.

My boyfriend that I'm dating now, never showed romantic interest in him.

It never led him to any conclusions that he wanted to be with them.

Both my best friend and this guy stopped talking two months before this guy and myself found each other on a website and met.

We started to hang out and become a little closer and fall for each other a little faster than what we both expected to.

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