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I've just broken up with a boyfriend that I had been dating for 13 months, just under 14 months.

We've been doing long distance for about seven because my job brought me to a new state.

And we were dating with the idea of him moving to my state once I was ready.

Well, we've, you know, after seven months of long-distance dating,

I thought that it was kind of like shittering off the pot time.

And I've realized that I'm not ready for him to move.

The biggest reason for this is because he has two young children, and I just don't think

that I could ever live with him leaving where his kids live to live with me.

And he's also quite a bit older than me.

He's 13 years older than me.

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