Savage Love Episode 1020

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 26 May 2026

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

This show is a roller coaster...of love. We start out with a heartbreaking question from a woman whose fiancé broke up with her after she had bought the dress and sent out the invites. Their lives and friends are intertwined. How can she bounce back from something like this? Then, a gay man has observed trans men at sex clubs getting it on with lots of guys. If they aren't on birth control, can they get pregnant? Is it polite to ask, and should cis men wear condoms in this situation? On the Magnum, strap in- it's Eric Andre! Dan and the master prankster answer a straight man's question about whether gathering with other men to masturbate together constitutes cheating. They also talk about some of the personal advice Dan gave Eric a little while ago. Want to get up close and personal with Eric Andre? Listen in... And, meet a rare woman who likes receiving dick pics. 6 months into their relationship, she started sending him nudes. When he asked if he should reciprocate, she expected some shirtless photos, and was surprised to see much, much more. She grew to really like it, but worries she's training him to send dick pics to other women after they break up. Should she explain to him that she's not like the other girls? Oh, I would NEVER! Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Mack Weldon: timeless, innovative menswear to help you move throughthe day with confidence. Get 20% off your first order of $125 or more, with promo code SAVAGE at MackWeldon.com This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. This episode is brought to you by Blueland. Going eco has never been easier. Revolutionary, refillable cleaning essentials eliminating single-use plastic. Right now, get 15% off your first order by going to Blueland.com/Savage Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. Verse tops? Polyamory? Dick pics? Multiple orgasms? He covers it all, and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since September 21, 1991.

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0:00.0	This episode is brought to you by mood.com, an online cannabis company that ships federally legal
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0:28.5	That's M-O-O-D.com with promo code Savage.
0:33.2	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:38.6	If you're under 18, get out of here, young and...
0:41.3	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:51.6	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
1:00.0	I want to thank AT, a lovecast listener in Australia, for bringing a local to Australia
1:05.1	sex scandal to my attention this week.
1:07.5	The sex scandal I shall now bring to your attention.
1:12.9	A group of cops in Perth,
1:18.6	the fourth biggest city in Australia, went out and got fucked up. Or as the Western Australian police investigators put it in the report, there was a social gathering involving officers
1:23.3	from Perth police station at licensed premises. The investigation just concluded the results are in more than a year after these officers
1:31.6	went out and got fucked, sorry, got socially gathered.
1:35.6	It was a wild night, a wild social gathering.
1:38.7	So wild, in fact, that an internal affairs investigation was launched immediately after.
1:44.0	And an email went out to all
1:45.2	the cops involved who had gathered socially to let them know that due to a complaint about
1:50.6	this specific social gathering, an incident at this specific social gathering. They were all
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