Savage Love Episode 1003

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 27 January 2026

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Have we reached peak poly drama? A queer woman has been open with her male live-in partner, having lots of great sex with him and others. The problem? His cat won't pay any attention to her. She doesn't feel jealous of the humans in their lives, but this cat! A widowed 81 year-old woman has taken up with her 56 year-old gardener. But he went and confessed to his priest who told him to cut it out. Should she try to convince him to keep loving her up? On the Magnum, enter Eric Williams, comedian and host of That’s A Gay Ass Podcast. Dan torments his very homosexual guest by asking him to answer a question about cunnilingus. Also discussed: What made them gay? And here's a PSA: Please leave the actors of Heated Rivalry alone. And, ethical dilemma ahoy! A divorced woman with kids is enjoying her Cumspringa- hooking up with lots of men and having a great time. She makes up personae for herself, withholding her real name, her job, or that she has kids. Her friend thinks this is immoral and that she should come clean about who she is to her lovers. What do you think? What do you think Dan will say? What Dan says...may shock you. Q@Savage.Love. 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Mill, odorless, effortless, fully automated food recycler. Try Mill risk-free for 90 days and get $75 off at Mill.com/Savage and use code Savage at checkout. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

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0:00.0	This episode of The Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Soaking Wet by Vee Health, the world's first probiotic, specifically designed for vaginal and vulva health and wellness.
0:10.5	Visit soaking wet.com and use code Savage for 10% off or click the link in this episode's show notes.
0:17.9	You're listening to The Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship
0:21.4	Show for grownups. If you're under 18, get out of here, young. If you're stuck in a relationship
0:28.4	quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony, while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:43.3	If they can't stick to massive cocks at the subreddit our massive cock, which is where men with massive cocks share pictures of their massive cocks with men or mostly men who appreciate massive
0:54.7	cox. If they can't stick to massive cocks, that are massive cocks. I don't see how I can
0:59.8	possibly stick to dildos here, which was the promise I made you last week at the top of the show.
1:05.8	In case you missed it, I try to stick to dildos around here, sticking to dildos being code for this as a sex and
1:12.3	relationship podcast, and we are going to focus on sex and relationships. All of us, me and Nancy
1:18.3	and the techsevy at-risk youth, we really want to give you a break from the truly awful news
1:23.7	coming at us from seemingly everywhere right now, and frankly, give ourselves a break, too.
1:30.7	But I find myself one week after promising you I would stick to dildos sitting in front of this
1:35.9	microphone again, unable to stick to dildos because of the news out of Minneapolis, because of
1:43.4	the cold-blooded murder of another innocent person.
1:47.0	Alex Prettie, a nurse at a VA hospital, was executed by an ICE agent who has not been
1:52.3	identified, but has incredibly been reassigned, put back on the streets. Preddy was a kind and
1:59.9	decent human being who was murdered for the crime of exercising
2:04.1	his rights under the First and Second Amendments. His murder came three weeks after the murder
2:08.8	on video of Renee Good. And just days after the death of a Cuban immigrant in ICE custody earlier
2:15.3	this month, Geraldo Lunas Campos was ruled a homicide. I find myself
2:21.3	sitting here filled with just an incandescent rage and despair unable to really think or talk
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