SATHIYA SAM | Breaking Pornography Addiction for Good
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9.1K Ratings
🗓️ 15 November 2022
⏱️ 63 minutes
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Summary
Serious pornography addiction is something millions and millions of men are currently dealing with. Many of these men know their addiction has gotten out of hand and yet they cannot seem to find a way to break the shackles of pornography.
My guest today has worked with thousands of men over the last 4 years to finally overcome their destructive addiction once and for all. His name is Sathiya Sam and today we talk about the three greatest obstacles to overcoming addiction, how viewing pornography is often a symptom of a deeper problem, why safety, intimacy, and significance lie at the root of this addiction, why traditional methods of overcoming pornography don't work, and 3 pillars every man needs to establish if he hopes to finally free himself from porn.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
- The barrier to entry to watch porn is much lower today
- Behavior changes that indicate an addiction
- How unmet needs can lead to viewing pornography
- Usually the side effects of masturbation are more negative than positive
- Negatively rewiring the brain through watching porn
- The downside of counting streaks
- Ability to focus and sit in silence is a super power in todays society
- The importance of having a trusted person
- Using journaling and reflection to understand your thoughts and feelings
- Confession to yourself and others is an important step
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| 0:00.0 | Sirius pornography addiction is something millions and millions of men are currently dealing with |
| 0:04.8 | Many of these men know their addiction has gotten at a hand and yet they cannot seem to find a way to break the shackles of pornography |
| 0:12.2 | My guest today has worked with thousands of men over the last four years to finally overcome their destructive addiction once and for all |
| 0:19.8 | His name is Sathia Sam and today we talk about the three greatest obstacles to overcoming addiction |
| 0:25.5 | How viewing pornography is often a symptom of a deeper problem why safety intimacy and significance lie at the root of this addiction |
| 0:34.3 | Why traditional methods of overcoming pornography don't work and three pillars every man needs to establish if he hopes to finally free himself from porn |
| 0:42.7 | You're a man of action you live life to the fullest embrace your fears and boldly charge your own path when life knocks you down |
| 0:49.8 | You get back up one more time every time you are not easily deterred or defeated |
| 0:55.0 | Rugged resilient strong. This is your life. This is who you are |
| 1:00.4 | This is who you will become at the end of the day and after all is said and done you can call yourself a man |
| 1:07.6 | Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Nickler. I'm your host and the founder of the Order of Man podcast and |
| 1:14.4 | Movement welcome here today. We've got an incredible conversation |
| 1:18.5 | On a topic that a lot of men need to hear about now. I will say this if you have young |
| 1:25.5 | Kids sensitive ears in the car or wherever you might be listening to this |
| 1:30.5 | We do it get into some sensitive |
| 1:32.9 | Subjects that may not be appropriate for some people |
| 1:36.4 | So just want to throw that disclaimer out there |
| 1:38.3 | And if you're wondering what it is we talk about obviously, you know the title of of the episode should give it away |
| 1:45.0 | I just want to throw that disclaimer out there and maybe you want to go back and listen to this one |
| 1:48.8 | What it's just you so just throw that disclaimer out there |
| 1:51.7 | If you're not familiar with what we're doing here at Order of Man |
| 1:54.1 | It's my job to give you the tools and conversations and resources you need to thrive as a man a father a husband a |
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