Sarah Jakes Roberts: Do THIS to OVERCOME Trauma & DISCOVER Your Inner Power!

The Daily Motivation

Lewis Howes

Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 893 Ratings

🗓️ 1 May 2024

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts offers invaluable insights into the challenges of maintaining healthy, peaceful relationships. She poignantly highlights the fear of losing control as a root cause of power struggles and conflicts within intimate partnerships. Pastor Roberts emphasizes the importance of cultivating emotional safety and security within oneself before inviting others into the vulnerability of intimacy. Her wisdom encourages individuals to establish their own sense of "home plate" – a foundation of self-acceptance and stability that allows for true connection without the need for control. Pastor Roberts' perspectives shed light on the path to creating relationships rooted in mutual understanding, respect, and lasting bonds.

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0:00.0	Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.
0:07.0	It seems to me like a lot of people are struggling in relationships.
0:16.0	There's power dynamics where there's just fights happening all the time in intimate relationships where people are dating or married.
0:24.6	Why do you think people struggle so much to have peaceful power in an intimate relationship
0:30.4	in today?
0:31.4	Probably fear of control.
0:33.0	Really?
0:34.0	Yeah, I would, I think so.
0:36.0	Fear of not even necessarily controlling another person but mitigating opportunities for hurt.
0:42.0	Like fear of being out of control.
0:44.0	Yes, fear of being out of control.
0:46.0	So the more that I can control myself or control them,
0:51.0	try and control the way that this relationship works, the better off I'll be.
0:55.0	I'll feel safe.
0:56.0	At the end of the day, I think people are searching for safety and safety and control
1:00.0	often feel like they go hand in hand.
1:02.0	Can you feel safe if you're controlling someone? often feel like they go hand in hand.
1:02.8	Can you feel safe if you're controlling someone else?
1:05.8	No, I don't think so.
1:07.9	So how does someone feel safe in a relationship with someone else that they're
1:11.8	sharing their heart with or being vulnerable and open with? else that they're sharing their heart with and being
1:13.2	vulnerable and open with how can they feel safe if someone else has the ability to
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