Sara Al Madani | How to Spot a Narcissist and Create Healthy Relationships
Disruptors
Rob Moore
4.8 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 16 June 2025
⏱️ 90 minutes
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Rob is joined by entrepreneur and author Sara Al Madani, who shares how to escape narcissistic relationships and create radical self love. The CEO of nine companies and survivor of multiple abusive marriages reveals how she overcame an incurable autoimmune disease through healing and built a multi-million dollar empire while raising her son alone. Sara talks about the uncomfortable truths about attraction patterns, healing generational trauma, and why most people stay broken. She shares her controversial dating rules, explains how to spot narcissists through body language, and challenges everything you think you know about love and boundaries.
Sara Al Madani REVEALS:
- How to identify a narcissist
- Why trauma creates attraction patterns
- The three types of narcissist
- How she cured her autoimmune disease
- Her radical dating honesty strategy
- Why men should pay for first
- The importance of attachment vs connection with children and avoiding codependent relationships
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"I feel sorry for you that you think you were made for one thing. Life is a rainbow. There's so many colours."
"You are given a human to take care of. We abandon ourselves. We give ourselves away."
"What you suppress, the body will express."
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| 0:00.0 | What's the most abusive relationship you've ever had? |
| 0:05.0 | Oh my God. What are we talking about? |
| 0:08.0 | Physical, emotional, financial. |
| 0:12.0 | You tell me, like the most abusive one. |
| 0:15.0 | I mean, look, my relationships were always with narcissistic men |
| 0:20.0 | and I have full accountability because I was the one broken and I was attracting them |
| 0:25.0 | But narcissists don't come in one shape and form |
| 0:28.8 | Some are abusive mentally some are physically it depends on how what level of narcissism they are and |
| 0:35.1 | Some are even abusive financially like that abusive financially so |
| 0:39.3 | I'd say the worst of the three the worst actually no hold on I had one that had almost three of them |
| 0:48.6 | all three traits combined yeah yeah and I feel like that relationship was my wake-up call. Right. Like that was the slap to the |
| 0:56.8 | face that told me, girl, you don't love yourself, you don't respect yourself, you don't do anything for |
| 1:03.2 | yourself. You're like literally selling yourself just to receive love. And that's what I did. Wow. So what |
| 1:10.2 | happened? So the thing is we can easily fall in |
| 1:15.2 | this game of victimhood where I'd say, oh, they're toxic, they're a narcissist and blame people |
| 1:21.1 | and point fingers, right? But after a while, if you're conscious enough, you realize I'm not growing if I blame people. |
| 1:29.1 | I need to take that finger, point it back at me, |
| 1:32.8 | and then look at why do I have this trait |
| 1:36.1 | or why do I have this pattern of attracting similar partners? |
| 1:39.5 | Like, I have an issue. |
| 1:40.9 | Because narcissistic people, after a while, |
| 1:43.1 | they show you who they are and the |
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