Safety: Why Emotional Safety is the Anchor for Lasting Family Connection

Famous at Home

Josh + Christi Straub

Parenting, Relationships, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Kids & Family

4.9 • 653 Ratings

🗓️ 10 November 2022

⏱️ 48 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

This week, we kick off a brand new series called Words that Matter for Your Family. For the next few weeks we'll be talking about words that better help us show up for our spouse and kids. To begin, we start by talking about the word "safety," what it is and how we cultivate it.

In this episode Josh and Christi talk about:

- How to pursue your spouse's heart using emotional vocabulary
- The way relational warmth wires your child's brain for relationships
- Why posture is more important than technique in parenting
- How to calm your child's brain when they are in the midst of fight, flight, or freeze
- Ways to focus on who you are becoming as an adult

Show Notes:

Order a copy of Josh’s book Safe House:
https://amzn.to/3td9hJf

Sign up for the MyKid’sEQ Ambassador Coaching Program:
https://www.mykidseq.com

Order a copy of What Am I Feeling? by Josh and Christi:
https://amzn.to/3boHOym

Order a copy of What Do I Do With Worry? by Josh and Christi:
https://amzn.to/3OwgxZJ

Order the Famous at Home book by Josh and Christi:
https://amzn.to/3y1jJFz

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	I mean, you don't have to be a parent for more than five minutes to realize it is the most guilt-ridden, shaming role on the planet.
0:08.0	And I'm just like, we were overwhelmed about all the advice coming in at us.
0:12.9	And I just, I went into the research and said, at the, when I'm on my rocking chair in my grandparenting years and I'm looking back on the years that I've raised my kids.
0:21.9	What will be the single greatest thing that will have really mattered in raising my kids?
0:26.7	You are listening to the Famous at Home podcast with Dr. Josh and Christy Straub.
0:32.5	Because when it's all said and done, we all want to know that we were famous at home.
0:42.2	Welcome back to the Famous at Home podcast. Today we are talking about a brand new series called
0:47.6	Words That Matter for Your Family. And the first word today is safety. Before we jump in,
0:56.4	here is a word from our sponsors.
1:04.3	So today we're talking about a brand new series called Words That Matter for Your Family. And I think, you know, we prayed through this. We thought through this really hard about
1:08.4	over the last number of months just kind of like what what really
1:11.3	matters when it comes to to family and last week we talked about the household we talked about
1:16.2	rethinking the household and what does it mean for how you're leading your household this week
1:21.4	we are starting this series and safety is the core like if you have a hub of a wheel at Famous at Home,
1:29.5	everything we've talked about through the years,
1:31.3	from the books we've written on the children's books,
1:35.2	what am I feeling?
1:36.4	What do I do with worry?
1:37.6	What do I do with anger?
1:40.0	Even Famous at Home, the book Famous at Home,
1:48.8	that book. And then back, it all started with emotional safety as the core, the crux. And I wrote a book in 2015 called How Emotional Safety is the
1:55.2	key to raising kids who live, love, and lead well. And in this book, it's all about emotional safety. It is the hub of the wheel of
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Josh + Christi Straub, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Josh + Christi Straub and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.