S9 E3 | Is Every Red Flag a Big Deal?
Therapy and Theology
Proverbs 31 Ministries
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 24 July 2025
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
It's one thing to recognize red flags in your relationships. It's another thing to know what to do after that.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- Five spectrums to consider when determining how serious a red flag is.
- Guidelines for determining if a particular red flag is something that needs to be confronted or self-managed.
- How to grow in awareness of red flags without getting overwhelmed or scared to get close to others.
Links we mentioned in this episode:
- Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here.
- Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age.
- Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here.
- Click here to download a transcript of this episode.
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| 0:00.0 | This episode of Therapy and Theology is brought to you by our friends at Chosen, a nonprofit that equips parents and caregivers with tools to help children heal. |
| 0:13.4 | They're offering an exclusive webinar training for our listeners, all about understanding attachment styles and how your past may be impacting your reactions to their behavior. |
| 0:25.3 | Because you're a valued therapy and theology podcast listener, you get exclusive access for just $10. |
| 0:32.9 | Head to Chosen.comcare backslash P31. |
| 0:43.3 | That's chosen.com slash p31 to register and be equipped to bring a deeper connection into your home. |
| 0:52.6 | Hi, friend. Welcome to today's episode of and Theology, where we help you work through |
| 0:57.1 | what you walk through. I'm your host, Shay Hill, and I'm so glad you're joining me today for this |
| 1:01.3 | special summer mini series on Red Flags. In this episode, Lisa, Jim and Joel will cover questions like, |
| 1:07.5 | is every red flag a big deal? And how is this red flag actually impacting me? |
| 1:13.1 | But before we dive in, I have a few things that I want to share with you. First, you know, |
| 1:17.4 | we are all about equipping you with resources to help you even after an episode ends. So for this |
| 1:21.8 | mini series, make sure you download a free resource by Lisa Turkers titled, Is This Normal? Fifteen Red Flags You May |
| 1:28.2 | Missing in your relationships. This resource will help you get honest about the effects |
| 1:32.6 | unhealthy relational dynamics are having on you with a guided list to process through |
| 1:37.1 | so you can tend to your own emotional well-being in a biblical way. Next, I thought it would |
| 1:41.9 | be fun to share this review from one of you guys. Here's what this |
| 1:44.7 | listener said. I'm so thankful for this podcast. It has helped me work through so many issues in my |
| 1:50.0 | life and enabled me to step outside of my whirlwind of emotions and plant my feet on the truth, |
| 1:55.4 | the Word of God. I hope this podcast continues. You are changing lives. Guys, isn't that awesome? |
| 2:01.2 | We love hearing how therapy and theology is making a difference in your life. |
| 2:04.6 | And we'd love to hear your story too. |
| 2:06.3 | So just leave a rating and a written review and maybe I'll share it in an upcoming episode. |
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