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Love Letters

S8E1: Tim's Big Secret

Love Letters

The Boston Globe

Love Tips, Breakups, Dating, Relationship Tips, Love, Dating And Relationships, Love Advice, Advice, Dating Tips, Marriage Advice, Breakup Advice, Relationship Advice, The Boston Globe, Boston, Society & Culture, Love Letters, Meredith Goldstein, Dating Advice, Letters, Relationships, Boston Globe

4.61.3K Ratings

🗓️ 25 April 2023

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

As a 20-something, Alex was determined to “win” at adulthood. And they did. They got a job, responsibly grew their savings, even bought a house. And then Alex met Tim, a kind and smart man who shared their passions, hobbies, and values. But a few years into their marriage, Alex discovered that Tim was carrying a pretty big secret – one that would jeopardize their hard-earned sense of security. Email us at [email protected].

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, we're about to wrap this season of Love Letters, which, as you know, has been all about love and money.

0:05.6

I've learned so much from our guests and their stories.

0:08.7

But before we go, I need to know, what are you taking away from this season?

0:13.0

What did it make you think about? Did it remind you of a money story from your life?

0:17.7

Do you have any money-related relationship advice that you just need to share with the world?

0:22.8

Send us a short voice memo, like three minutes or less, to lovelettersatboston.com.

0:28.3

That's lovelettersatboston.com. We might use it in a future episode of the podcast.

0:33.5

Please include your name. It can just be a first name or a pseudonym and where you're from

0:37.9

in the recording. I can't wait to hear what you think.

0:47.6

One night in January of 2020, Alex, a young professional who lives in Massachusetts,

0:54.1

musters up the courage to confront a marital problem, a marital mystery, you might say.

1:01.1

Alex turns to Tim, the husband in this story, and asks him, what the hell is going on?

1:08.5

I finally said, if I didn't know you better, I would think you had a drug problem.

1:14.0

I don't understand where your money goes. And he left the room, and he came back in like five or

1:20.2

ten minutes later, looking kind of white as a ghost, face fallen, and I was like, oh no.

1:29.4

What has happened here? What had happened? Well, it's a long story. A story about love,

1:37.0

money, trust, and whether a relationship, even a strong one, can survive a certain kind of

1:43.4

infidelity. He kind of did the like, I have to tell you something. And I didn't know what he was

1:52.3

going to say at that point. From the Boston Globe and PRX, this is Love Letters. I'm Meredith Goldstein.

2:13.9

Welcome to season eight of Love Letters, which is all about money and how it relates to love and

2:27.2

relationships. I need to say right off the bat that this topic is close to my heart and my soul,

2:33.6

or should I say close to my neuroses. As I told my financial advisor in the previous episode,

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