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Inner Hoe Uprising

S7 Ep4: So, whats the big deal about pronouns anyways?

Inner Hoe Uprising

InnerHoeUprising

Comedy, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.9857 Ratings

🗓️ 3 February 2021

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

On today’s episode, Sam describes why pronouns and treating our non-binary family with care is of great importance. Then we air a gender 101  from Rob & Sam.

We get into transgender identities, non binary identities, pronouns, biology, gender roles, biological sex, the animal kingdom, and much more! 

Relevant Links & Notes:

Merriam Webster on “they” as a singular pronoun: https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/singular-nonbinary-they

The original, un-truncated version of 54 Genders or None: https://apple.co/3t8wRFM

“I Said They”, Robs ep on Whoreible Decisions:  https://apple.co/2YaC4hU or https://youtu.be/LnnHyu8R2Xw 

PBS Map of Diverse Gender Cultures: https://www.pbs.org/independentlens/content/two-spirits_map-html/ 

More IHU Episodes about Gender:
Non Binary Identity w/ Arrow Fitz: https://apple.co/2q1xUf1  & Spotify: https://spoti.fi/350Spaw

Intersex 101 w/ Babalwa Mtshawu:  Apple: https://apple.co/2pDVMoy  & Spotify: https://spoti.fi/37uQZHe 

Two Spirit Identities w/ Quiahuitl Villegas: Apple: https://apple.co/2rrARFT & Spotify: https://spoti.fi/35J8z8P

Updating these show notes to include Weezy's of WD's post regarding their episode with Rob. This post was brought to our attention after emailing WD with concerns Wednesday morning: https://www.patreon.com/posts/47032609 

Content warning: Rob and Sam use ableist language like “dumb” “crazy” and “stupid” throughout this episode. As a show, we’ve committed to no longer using this kind of language and apologize for doing so in the past. 

Love and light to the artists who have lent their music to the pod!  Our opening is a remix of “Queen S%!T” by SheReal (https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by) We also play  “Everyday”  and “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst (https://twitter.com/wavghxst)

Transcript

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0:00.0

Inner Whole Upricing.

0:02.0

Uprong. Welcome to the Inner Ho Uprising, the podcast about sex love and dating from the perspective of me,

0:16.0

Sam, one black, non-monogamous, pansexual feminist ho who is from New York City and whose pronouns are she and her.

0:23.6

And despite what you might be thinking,

0:25.3

I don't say my pronouns for fun or to be politically correct.

0:29.8

Or because I think it makes me sound smart

0:31.8

or to confuse you or to get on your nerves or anything of the like.

0:35.6

You see, stating your own pronouns and normalizing a space where pronouns are discussed and

0:39.9

affirmed is all a part of creating safe and affirming spaces for our trans and

0:44.2

non-binary family which leads me to the topic of today's very special episode

0:49.5

of Inner Hole uprising. So let's hit you with a little bit of backstory here. So if you don't know,

0:55.5

Inner Hole Uprising is comprised of four folks in addition to myself. We got a Kua, a

1:00.1

mental health professional, and a bad bitch whose pronouns are she and her.

1:03.2

We got Rodeka, aka a biohacking gamer and kind soul whose pronouns are also she and her.

1:09.1

And we got Rob, our resident firefighter and science nerd, and Brogg ass motherfucker, whose pronouns are they and

1:16.2

them.

1:17.2

Rob is also an agender non-binary person, and if you don't know what that means maybe you should keep listening.

1:24.7

Recently Rob was a guest on a fellow New York City base self-described educational

1:29.3

sex podcast. The name of that show is horribleisions. You might have heard me mention Rob's appearance on last week's episode of our podcast.

1:38.0

Throughout the course of the episode, it became pretty clear that the show's hosts were unfamiliar with gender non-binary identities, as lots of folks are.

1:46.4

That ignorance led to them frequently misgendering our co-host.

1:50.4

And using she and her pronouns to refer to someone who has they and them pronouns.

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