S6: MINISERIES: How To Grieve Hopefully

Heart of Dating

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Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

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🗓️ 8 January 2021

⏱️ 15 minutes

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0:00.0	Hey friends. Welcome to Heart of Dating and today's mini series. In fact, this is the very first mini series of 2021 and I want to let you guys know what to expect this year.
0:11.6	So on Wednesdays, we will launch a brand new full-length
0:14.5	episode and then on Fridays for the next few weeks we're going to be launching
0:18.1	mini-series episodes. These mini-series episodes will be short snippets of practical advice for the subject that we're discussing
0:25.9	on Wednesdays with that guest of the week.
0:28.8	Now to remind you, the beginning of season six will be focusing on different elements and themes from my very
0:35.0	first book thank you for rejecting me so Friday these mini series there are going to be
0:39.3	some really practical advice that also coincide with things that you'll find in my book that comes out on February 16th.
0:45.4	So today let's go into the topic. We're talking about chapter 11 of my book called God on mute.
0:56.1	So many people lately have been asking me, Kate, you just went through a breakup a few months ago and how do you seem so positive today? You're
1:00.6	smiling, you seem happy, how are you able to do that after just going through a breakup?
1:06.0	Well today, that's kind of what I want to talk about because the last thing that I want to encourage anyone to do is shove down your pain.
1:15.8	It's kind of like shoving a marshmallow into a keyhole.
1:19.8	Eventually, if you try to do that, eventually the gooey insides will come oozing out and it'll make such a crazy mess right and that's what kind of happens when we try to shove down or compartmentalize or hide our pain. It will come out and it will leak over everything.
1:37.0	So today I want to talk about what it means to grieve hopefully.
1:41.3	What it means to grieve hopefully is making space for our pain while still fixing our eyes on God knowing that he has good things planned for the future.
1:52.8	And even if none of it makes sense right now,
1:55.4	oftentimes it won't,
1:56.8	and even if it feels overwhelming and terribly bleak
1:59.5	and painful, it will make sense one day. You will see the purpose of why this happened one day.
2:06.2	So to answer that question that everyone asked me how do I seem so positive it's because
2:10.4	I'm able to practice hopefully grieving.
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