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You think you know me, you don't know me well.

I don't know me well at all.

Little, little, at all. So you started college.

So you started college.

I would love to just hear what your, what the culture was like for you and what the experience was like for you going from being, I don't know if sheltered is the right word. I don't know what adjective you would use to describe it.

Here's the interesting thing. In a way, I had this, I was this weird dichotomy of being very

controlled and isolated and sheltered, but having more almost like worldly experience than other people.

The way the ministry that my parents had, they had a lot of people from different cultures

and countries come and stay with us, like different missionary groups that came to Britain.

So I was constantly surrounded by people from, you know, we had people from Nepal, we had people from

Kenya, we had people from the Middle East, we had people from Iceland. So for me, being around

foreigners was normal. I felt almost more comfortable there. And, you know, then when I was 13,

we moved all the way to Hawaii. And then two years later, we moved all the way back.

And I mean, this should tell you how isolated we were, that even when I moved back to my home

country, it felt the same as when we moved to Hawaii. You know, like, even though I lived there

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