S4 Ep64: How to Practice Spiritual Leadership In Your Relationship with Matt Ayres
Heart of Dating
That Sounds Fun Network
4.8 • 2.1K Ratings
🗓️ 16 October 2019
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
Matt discusses spiritual leadership and talks about being equally yoked and discusses if it's the man's job and how we can practice spiritual leadership as a single.
Heart of Dating welcomes Matt Ayers to the show! Matt is a close friend to Kait and he helped start Vintage Church in Santa Monica, CA. He’s been married for 6 years to his beautiful wife Stephanie.
Matthew Ayers is a founding member, treasurer and executive board member of Vintage Church in LA. Outside of his involvement at the church, Matthew manages the investments of a handful of very wealthy families at Alex Brown. Matt lives in west Los Angeles with his wife, Stephanie and his two daughters, Riley and Dylan.He is a avid reader, a golfer and loves to travel.
A few years ago Kait heard Matt speak on discipleship at their yearly church retreat, and she was blown away by his input, and convictions. Soon after, Kait tracked him down at a leadership event their church was throwing and asked him follow up questions. Since then Kait has gotten to know both him and his wife, Steph, and have grown to love both of them in how they do marriage and how them mentor and disciple others.
Today Matt and Kait dive into the conversation of discipleship and spiritual leadership, and they talk about how that applies to men specifically in dating relationships. It’s an incredibly rich discussion. They even touch on gender roles and leadership at the end which is dynamite, so you will want to make sure you stay till the end to hear what they discuss!
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Heart of Dating Podcast. |
| 0:04.0 | Hey, it's Kate. |
| 0:07.0 | I'm so glad you could join us this week as we try to entangle the ever so ambiguous world of dating as a Christian. |
| 0:13.4 | Over here on Heart of Dating, we get real, |
| 0:15.6 | as we answer some tough questions |
| 0:17.2 | and uncover transformative ways to approach Christian dating. |
| 0:21.2 | Oh, and you better believe we have some laughs along the way because last time I checked the |
| 0:25.8 | struggle is hashtag real you know what I'm saying? Now let's get to the heart of the matter. |
| 0:39.7 | Hey family, it's Kate here and I'm so glad you're here today. |
| 0:54.8 | This last week I just had a moment of being so grateful for all the messages I received from you on Caitness and at heart of dating and I'm just really thankful for you all for being so encouraging first of all but also for being vulnerable and for sharing your highs and lows with me in the dating scene. I just love that we can commune together. It's just so special, so thank you. |
| 1:01.0 | Now right before we get into today's episode, I want to share just two resources to help you |
| 1:05.3 | with your dating life. |
| 1:06.3 | First, if right now you feel ready to date and put yourself out there, then I want to encourage |
| 1:11.0 | you to go ahead and download our free resource on how to show interest. |
| 1:15.6 | Yep, how to show interest to somebody you like. |
| 1:18.6 | You can grab that for free by going to heart of dating.com forward slash show interest. |
| 1:23.8 | Now one other thing, did you guys know that I offer one-on-one relationship |
| 1:27.4 | coaching? |
| 1:28.5 | I love doing this podcast and I really hope it encourages you, but I am also aware that every person's |
| 1:34.5 | dating history is different, which means that not one set of dating advice can |
| 1:39.2 | really apply to everyone. So that's why it's my honor and joy to walk alongside them by clients to help them create a vision for their life in terms of God themselves and also inundating. |
| 1:51.0 | Just from this last year, I have seen amazing clients claim freedom in |
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