This is Jenny Allen and you are listening to the Made for This podcast.

Hey everyone welcome to today's episode of The Made for This Podcast. We are super excited you guys are joining us for this get out of your head

kids season and coming up today is an interview with Jenny and Dr. Gary Chapman.

Dr. Chapman is a best-selling author of the Five Love Languages book series.

They have Five Love Languages for kids, for Marriages, and so many other ones.

You can find all those books at 5 Love Languages.com.

And after today's interview, you might want to find out what your top love languages are or maybe your kids.

So if you go to five love languages.com you can actually take a free quiz and your kids can take a

free quiz and you guys can do that together.

So here we go.

Here is Jenny and have you Dr Chapman. Thank you so much for joining us today.

Well, I'm glad to be with you.

So we want to talk about the five love languages and we're

specifically going to do that when it comes to kids but in case somebody's not

familiar with the five love languages tell us just a little bit about each

language and kind of where this came for you, where you had this thought

and recognition. Well I first discovered the love languages in my counseling with couples. They would

sit in my office and one of them would say like a wife would say,

I just feel like he doesn't love me and the husband would say, I don't understand that. I do this and this and this.

Why would you not feel loved? and I knew people were missing each other even though they were trying to express love and I just kept hearing similar stories over and over so eventually I took time to sit down and read several years of notes that I made when I was counseling and ask myself, when someone said, I feel like my spouse doesn't love me, what did they want?

What were they complaining about?

And their answers fed into five categories.

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