I need to start today's episode of the upside with an apology.

For. If you recall, I started our last episode of the upside with an apology to Dylan

in Bogart, because Dylan was celebrating birthday number nine. I was supposed to say Happy

Birthday on Tuesday. I forgot. So I did it on Friday instead. So here's a apology number

two to Dylan in Bogart, because during the entire apology on Friday's episode, I referred

to her as a boy. Jeff. I just I just I know how do you know that were you corrected her

mom sent us a message to say thank you and didn't even she so mom is so classy and Dylan

is obviously classy like mom because neither one of them called me out on it. But said

Dylan was so she was so happy to hear you wish and I was like she because Dylan is

Dylan an automatic boy name or an automatic girl name. I think people think boy, but I'm

someone that loves like unisex names. Right. Like I think they're so cute. So I never

assume anything. I I was very good friends with a boy Dylan. So I always default to Dylan

being masculine, but I know her multiple girl Dylan. So it was dumb and I should have

asked and I didn't. So thank you guys for not calling me out on it and Dylan. I am so

sorry. And you know what? I went back and listened to it. And for like the first 30 seconds,

I did such a great job of not referencing gender at all. And then I said, well, he'll

be able to celebrate in six months. And then it was all I hear. It was like he M M E. So

Dylan, happy birthday. I hope you have a great birthday. And she has gotten her non birthday

birthday stretch into a week because of me. So I'm sorry. Apologies. Happy birthday again.

The upside means living in gratitude, finding the positive in every experience and helping

other people do the same. You are now part of the movement. Welcome to the upside with

Callie and Jeff. If this is your first episode of the upside, welcome. If you've been here

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