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Raising Good Humans

S3 Ep 14: How to Become A Good Listener and Connect With Your Kids w/ Psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb

Raising Good Humans

Voicing Change Media

Education, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.71.9K Ratings

🗓️ 7 April 2023

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Tune in to this week’s episode with NYT best-selling author and host of Dear Therapist Lori Gottlieb, where we discuss how to become a better listener and better connect with our kids, how to distinguish between secrecy and privacy, and the difference between connection and codependence. If you enjoy this episode, be sure to leave a rating and a review, and check out the Raising Good Humans Premium podcast, available exclusively on the Apple app! Seed: Start a new healthy habit today. Visit seed.com/RAISING and use code RAISING to redeem 25% off your first month of Seed's DS-01® Daily Synbiotic. That’s seed.com/RAISING and use code RAISING BetterHelp: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of therapy at www.betterhelp.com/HUMANS Sakara: Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to Sakara.com/HUMANS or enter code HUMANS at checkout. Produced by Dear Media This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:06.7

Welcome to Raising Good Humans. I'm Dr. Lisa Pressman and today we're talking to Psychotherapist

0:12.5

Lori Gottlieb. You might recognize her from her New York Times bestselling book. Maybe you

0:19.1

should talk to someone or her popular podcast deer therapist or her Atlantic column that she

0:26.8

writes called deer therapist. She's awesome and I wanted to have a conversation with her from

0:32.7

a therapist perspective. How can we learn to be better listeners and connect with our kids so

0:40.4

that they feel like we're a safe place for them to come to talk about what's going on with them.

0:45.6

We're also distinguishing between secrecy and privacy, between connection and co-dependence

0:54.4

and really it's about how we can grow healthy connected relationships without losing

1:00.4

ourselves and without kind of swallowing our kids. If you enjoy this episode and you feel like it,

1:07.6

go ahead and write a little review, give it a five star rating and of course DM me on Instagram

1:14.4

at Raising Good Humans podcast. You can also sign up for my Apple Premium content which is continuing

1:22.2

our mindfulness for busy parents and of course my free sub-stack newsletter, Dr. Lisa Pressman

1:30.0

dot substack dot com. So much fun stuff. I wanted to have a little departure from my typical

1:38.3

conversations because I thought it would be so cool which I also imagine you've gotten quite used

1:46.2

to just from splitting your work between therapy and kind of talking to the world and some disclosures

1:55.6

of your own. So I just thought we could enjoy a conversation about some of the observations you've

2:02.0

made in what adults are talking about in therapy about their earlier experiences that kind of you

2:10.5

wish you could go back and share with parents. Yeah absolutely. You know it's interesting because

2:17.2

I think that a lot of parents sometimes or a lot of what people talk about about their parents

2:23.2

is why can't my parent just be like this right? So these are the adults talking about their parents

2:29.9

and I always say a lot of us parents are kind of unhealed children sometimes that if we haven't done

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