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S3 / E118 Obsessive Desire: Stalking Faye

Strictly Stalking

Strictly Stalking

Society & Culture, True Crime

4.12.6K Ratings

🗓️ 18 April 2022

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Faye is being stalked by an ex-boyfriend who is obsessed with Asian women.

While working out at the gym, Faye met an employee who found her personal information in the company database and sent her a Facebook friend request.

Their friendship became romantic, but when she wanted to become exclusive, he ghosted her, and it turned into an on and off-again relationship.

After Faye started dating a new man, her stalker repeatedly showed up at her apartment, threw water bottles at her windows, and called her non-stop for over a year.

She blocked him on social media, but he created fake profiles to reach out, followed her friends and family, made cruel comments on posts, and sent her sexually explicit messages.

He showed up in public places and approached Faye, so she obtained a restraining order, but it has not prevented him from continuing to stalk her.

Faye is coming forward to share her story to amplify resources and shed light on hate crimes against AAPI (Asian Americans and Pacific Islander) women.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

I would occasionally visit him late at night at the gym during his shifts and then we would

0:07.8

like eat a meal together, like hang out in the break room because the middle of the night

0:12.7

and the gym is pretty empty.

0:14.9

So the first thing I saw and I think this is the first red flag was when we were hanging

0:20.1

out in the break room and he opened his employee locker and inside his locker door was plastered

0:27.2

with photos of like Asian women, some scantly dressed and I asked if he knew these women

0:33.2

and he said yes a couple of them and I'm like okay like yellow fever is real like this

0:39.0

guy has like an obsession with Asian women.

0:43.4

I'm Jamie BB and I'm Jake Debtula.

0:59.2

On today's episode of Strictly Stocking we're chatting with Fay who's being stalked by an

1:02.7

ex who has an obsession for Asian women.

1:05.8

Fay met a 24 hour gym employee during her workout and they struck up a friendship.

1:10.2

The employee found her on the company database and sent her a Facebook friend request and their

1:14.2

friendship turned romantic.

1:16.4

When she wanted to become exclusive he goes to her at first but eventually came back forging

1:20.3

and on and off again relationship.

1:22.5

Fay started dating a new man and her stalker showed up at her apartment, buzzed the front

1:26.3

gate and threw water bottles at her windows in the middle of the night.

1:29.7

She told him to stop contacting her but he persisted calling her nonstop for over a year.

1:35.2

She blocked him on social media but he created fake social media profiles, followed her friends

1:39.6

and family, made cruel comments on posts and sent her sexually explicit messages.

1:44.6

He began showing up in public places and approached Fay so she obtained a restraining order but

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