meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Strictly Stalking

S3 / E101 Bad Match: Stalking Kelli

Strictly Stalking

Strictly Stalking

Society & Culture, True Crime

4.12.6K Ratings

🗓️ 21 December 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Kelli was stalked by a man she met on a dating app. She matched with a guy and after they connected over social media he asked her out. They hit it off and began hanging out every night. He was nice and respectful at first, but then began checking her phone, and spying on her social media accounts. After Kelli told him she wasn't interested in a relationship he became unstable, telling her he missed her, getting mad at her, and even contacting her pretending to be his own mother. He called her non-stop, contacted her ex-boyfriends claiming that she cheated, and created a fake Instagram account using her personal information.  When he began driving by her house she tried to get a protective order, but was told multiple times that she didn't have enough proof. Kelli eventually secured an order of protection through family court, and that's when she found out her ex already had an order of protection against him from someone else and that he was arrested for assault in the past.   DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com RATE US As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083?? Instagram:? Strictly Stalking https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod Jaimie Beebe https://www.instagram.com/feathergirl77 ?Jake Deptula https://www.instagram.com/jaked3000 Please consider supporting the companies that support us!  Find out how Upstart can lower your monthly payments today when you go to UPSTART.com/STALKING. Don't forget to use our URL to let them know we sent you!  Listen to The GENERATION WHY Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or you can listen ad-free by joining Wondery Plus in the Wondery app. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

So many people use dating apps nowadays, but unfortunately most of the dating apps don't have a ton of security measures to help anyone who's using them.

0:08.0

Dating apps can be a breeding ground for any type of predator. People can put whatever image they want out there.

0:13.0

And things can move along rather quickly, you know, one minute you're chatting, the next minute you're meeting up.

0:18.0

It's almost like the person is dating their own fantasy sometimes, then what's actually real right in front of their face.

0:24.0

Kelly was just trying to get over her acts, meet new people, and her story really shows us that when you get on a dating app, you could be playing with fire.

0:31.0

He's texting me pictures of his sweatshirt saying like he misses me, he's texting me so much information that you can tell that it's him.

0:42.0

But yet they were from all these texts were from a different number every single time because he had a text free app or whatever.

0:50.0

So the cops said it's not enough proof. When he said that, I just started breaking down. I was like hysterically crying and I was like, it feels like you guys are waiting for me to get seriously hurt or taken or killed before you take this seriously.

1:06.0

Like this is not some boy that's just bothering me. I'm actually scared for my life.

1:22.0

I'm Jamie Beebe. And I'm Jake Debtula. On today's episode of Strictly Stocking, we're chatting with Kelly.

1:27.0

Who's stocked by a man she matched with on a dating app.

1:30.0

Browsing through a dating app, Kelly met a guy and they began hanging out every night. He was nice and respectful at first until he began checking her phone and spying on her social media accounts.

1:39.0

When Kelly wasn't interested in a relationship, he became unstable, telling her he missed her, getting mad at her, and even contacting her, pretending to be his own mother.

1:47.0

He called her nonstop, disabling her phone, contacted her ex-boyfriends, claiming that she cheated on him, and then created an Instagram account using her personal information.

1:55.0

He began driving by her house so she tried to get a protective order but was told multiple times that she didn't have enough proof.

2:01.0

Kelly eventually secured an order of protection through Family Court. She found out that her ex already had an order of protection against him from someone else and that he was arrested for assault in the past.

2:10.0

Kelly, thank you for joining us today.

2:12.0

Thank you for having me.

2:13.0

Of course. So what do you want to tell us about your family life growing up?

2:16.0

So my family life was good. I grew up in a house with my brother, my sister, my mom, my dad, until 2017 when my parents separated.

2:26.0

My dad moved to South Carolina, my brother moved out, and me, my sister, my mom, moved into a townhouse just a few towns over.

2:35.0

What were some of the things in school that you were interested in?

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Strictly Stalking, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Strictly Stalking and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.