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Love Letters

S2E1: ‘He Doesn’t Look Odious’

Love Letters

The Boston Globe

Love Tips, Breakups, Dating, Relationship Tips, Love, Dating And Relationships, Love Advice, Advice, Dating Tips, Marriage Advice, Breakup Advice, Relationship Advice, The Boston Globe, Boston, Society & Culture, Love Letters, Meredith Goldstein, Dating Advice, Letters, Relationships, Boston Globe

4.61.3K Ratings

🗓️ 12 February 2019

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

In the first episode of the new season, Meredith Goldstein asks: Whatever happened to the good old-fashioned set-up? She talks to two friends with starkly different views on whether set-ups are worthwhile, and she visits a salon that offers far more than haircuts. Plus, Meredith introduces Erin, a 44-year-old single woman whose dating life Love Letters will be chronicling all season. Email us at [email protected].

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Something I hate about dating is you can hang out with a guy for five or six hours.

0:05.0

You can have dinner, he can go back to your place, and at the end of it, he can look at you and say,

0:12.0

hey, I'm actually not really looking the date right now and I'm kind of emotionally unavailable.

0:17.0

It was that final guy disappearing, closing the match.

0:23.6

It just makes you feel really unimportant.

0:27.3

All I know is that you have to be honest,

0:29.2

to clearly state your intentions with the person

0:32.4

and keep tabs, always check in.

0:34.7

I'm 71 with a boyfriend.

0:37.4

We met at a ballroom dance almost two years ago.

0:40.4

Before that I did a ton of online dating.

0:43.0

Oh God, is this what dating is going to be for the rest of my life?

0:45.0

Am I never going to have sparks again?

0:47.0

Am I never going to fall in love again?

0:50.0

So I was like, you know what, I'm going to not expend this energy anymore, feeling bad.

0:56.0

Okay, so dating in 2019, confusing, frustrating, sometimes completely exhilarating.

1:05.3

There can be that beautiful moment when it clicks,

1:07.9

when you think,

1:08.8

I have met someone, I am with someone. But how do you find them? How do you get there?

1:15.0

From the Boston Globe and PRX, this is Love Letters. I'm Meredith Goldstein.

1:24.0

Welcome to season.

1:30.0

Welcome to season two of love letters.

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