S2 Ep34: Your Tough 20's Guide: Stop Forcing Friendships, Comparing Your Life, & Dating Mr. Wrong

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🗓️ 24 June 2024

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

One of my college besties is here to discuss the ADULTING truths - Cause your early 20s are HARD. She brings a different POV, having moved to Denver & now LA post college.

Call Syd Advice: 612-470-7569
- "My long distance boyfriend had dinner & a walk with a girl friend?"
- "I am walking on eggshells with a girl in my friend group from college... What do I do?"
- "I feel a friend group divide.. How do I know which friends to prioritize?"
- "How do I stop stressing and find balance between HAPPY & HEALTHY?"
- PRIDE MONTH LOVE: "I came out & my dad is taking down my pride flag..."

WE TALK:
- Feeling lost & misunderstood
- Why we date the wrong people & have the wrong priorities
- Making the same mistake twice is human
- We care more than anyone else... SO STOP DOING THINGS TO PLEASE OTHERS

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0:00.0	I said looking to get advice on friendships post-college.
0:06.7	And I know you and your sister talked about it a little bit, but it's weird.
0:11.9	It is weird.
0:12.4	I totally agree with you.
0:13.7	I'm just struggling to figure out when you know, like, how do you know which friendships
0:19.6	are worth fighting for and, like,
0:22.1	continue to put effort in and which friendships you should just kind of let disintegrate,
0:29.1	honestly?
0:29.9	Or not that anything bad has happened.
0:32.7	You didn't have a fight.
0:33.5	Nothing falling out.
0:34.1	You're just drifting apart.
0:35.7	And I know that's part of life, but I'm just trying to figure out, you know,
0:39.6	which friendship should I continue to try to prioritize and make time forward and put in an effort?
0:45.1	And then how do I know which ones I should just kind of let go of?
0:48.7	In 26, so my friends are 25, 26.
0:51.5	We all went to college together, and we're super close in college and now
0:55.3	there's kind of a divide. And I don't know should I continue to prioritize everyone or just let it
1:03.8	kind of fall apart. I don't know. Drift apart. Let me know what you think. Thank you.
1:08.4	I can answer that quite easily. The answer is absolutely not.
1:12.7	You should not be prioritizing everybody in your friend group. Absolutely not. What's the point?
1:17.7	I just and how large, did she say how large the friend group was? No, she didn't. But if I'm
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