S2 Ep127: What’s the Emotional Tax on Casual Sex? ft. Decisions Decisions

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 9 July 2025

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Weezy and Mandii B get real about shedding the pressure to “find the one” and embracing what feels good instead of what looks good on paper, how we need to reverse engineer the way we have casual sex, and how to set yourself up for success while dating and having casual sex.

WeezyWTF expands on how sexual liberation goes hand in hand with how you approach and manifest casual sex. Mandii B & Binx open up about surviving sexual assault, and how that experience reshaped their relationships with men in their community.

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0:29.0	slash audio. I don't know why we were taught that if you have sex with a man, they're going to like you more.
0:34.8	That is a lie. For some reason, we think if they leave or if we don't get X, Y, Z out of them, we're worthless,
0:42.3	or we gave up too much of ourselves.
0:43.9	Well, you got Dick Too.
0:45.0	How do I feel liberated as a woman if I'm accepting crumbs or just pieces of what I want?
0:51.0	And that you have to accept that sex that you're asking for isn't crumbs
0:56.0	Mandy B and wheezy New York Times best-selling authors of no host barred hosts of decisions decisions
1:03.2	podcast I think that's the problem with a lot of women they're like yeah I just want to use him for
1:08.2	and then he comes over and you realize no, bitch, you want to be held.
1:12.1	How do you find sexual liberation while also not being objectified out in the world?
1:17.2	I don't think anyone cares about your soul for a little bit.
1:19.7	I don't believe.
1:20.4	Oh shit.
1:21.1	I don't believe that anyone does in the beginning.
1:23.3	I don't.
1:24.1	I'm just curious if you guys feel like you lost anything in pursuit of sexual liberation.
1:29.3	Hi!
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