S2 Ep108: Singer Mario: Mother Wounds, Healing His Feminine, and Apologizing to Women

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

5 • 5.5K Ratings

🗓️ 26 February 2025

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

In this deeply personal episode presented by Bumble, singer Mario opens up about the profound impact of unresolved trauma stemming from his relationship with his mother. He shares how this pain shaped his early behavior towards women, leading to manipulation and broken connections. Mario takes us on his journey of self-reflection, healing, and ultimately embracing his inner feminine energy—a process that not only reshaped his relationships but also elevated his personal growth and artistry.

As Mario gets real about accountability, self-love, and the power of healing, he also introduces us to his latest album, "Glad You Came"—a soulful and vulnerable collection of music inspired by his life experiences and growth. Tune in for an honest, thought-provoking conversation that dives into the intersections of trauma, love, and creativity.

Don't miss this inspiring episode and be sure to check out Mario's new album, "Glad You Came," now streaming on all platforms!

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0:00.0	I had learned how to unlock a woman, but they didn't learn how to protect it.
0:06.0	I was really great at unlocking, like, really, really, really good.
0:10.0	And I knew I was.
0:11.0	Can you illustrate to me what unlocking me is?
0:14.0	Disarming, connecting to them, their fears and their traumas and all these things,
0:20.0	and them connecting to mind, but me not
0:23.3	having a real care of regard for it. It's like, I just wanted what I want. I wanted to feel
0:28.0	something, whether it be intimacy, company, whatever, but I was never going to take it further
0:31.9	than that. Rather than covering off on multiple topics, I would love for you to step into your intimacy
0:39.5	expertise and pick one particular thing that you feel really confident teaching other
0:44.2	people about.
0:46.0	A big topic for me would be not having my mother involved in my life as closely as I needed growing up.
0:59.9	And how that affected the way I look at women and deal with women in my life.
1:06.3	So my mother's her with addiction and her not being around and having to face that with her going
1:11.3	through a lot of things affected the way I was intimate.
1:13.6	Women affected.
1:14.6	I spoke to women affected, you know, and my loyalty to women in a lot of ways.
1:19.6	I talk about the pros and cons of it and how I came out on the other side of it.
1:24.6	So let's stay on that topic.
1:26.6	I think it's a wonderful topic.
1:27.9	Beautiful.
1:28.6	Okay.
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