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Friendship Therapy

S2, Ep 1 NEW Friendship Therapy: Overthinking in Friendship - it's hard to feel, but harder not to

Friendship Therapy

Emma Reed Turrell

Society & Culture, Relationships, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 26 August 2024

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to season two of Friendship Therapy! This is the podcast in which author and psychotherapist Emma Reed Turrell talks to real people about real friendships and looks at these pivotal relationships through a therapy lens.

In our first episode of season two, Emma looks at overthinking in friendship with her guest, primary school teacher and mother of three, Rose. It's a conversation that takes us to an unexpected place, but one that ultimately helps Rose to unpack her overthinking in friendship, and understand why it may come down to a fear of loss.

When she was just nine years old, Rose left Australia for a trip to England with her mother and brother, expecting her father to join them a fortnight later. Tragically, Rose's dad never made it to England. He died suddenly during their first week away, and life would never be the same again.

During this conversation, Emma and Rose explore the idea that her tendency to worry about her friendships might have something to do with the loss of her father when she was a child, and whether teaching a group of nine year olds for the first time this year might have emerged some big feelings for the nine year old she once was.

In her reflections on the episode, Emma also reminds us that it's hard to feel, but sometimes, it's harder not to.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Heading off in the car this summer, think trip.

0:03.0

TRIP. That's top-up, rest, inspect, prepare.

0:09.0

When you've got a big journey ahead of you, there is the temptation to push on and get some miles under your belt

0:14.4

but for a safer trip you should rest and stretch your legs every two hours.

0:19.0

This is crucial for the driver but I think it's really important for the kids too especially if

0:24.2

they've been strapped into car seats. Have a safe trip. Search National

0:28.6

Highways Trip. Welcome to Friendship Therapy. The podcast in which we look at Friendship

0:35.0

through a therapeutic lens.

0:37.0

This week, I'm joined by Rose, a primary school teacher and mother of three

0:42.0

who came to unpack her overthinking

0:44.3

and left understanding why it might come down to a fear of loss.

0:50.4

When she was nine years old Rose left Australia for a trip to England with her mother and brother, expecting her father to join them a fortnight later.

0:59.0

Tragically, Rose's dad never made it. He died suddenly the first week they were away and life would never

1:05.3

be the same again. In our conversation we start to wonder together whether her tendency to worry

1:12.3

about her friendships when she's not with them, might

1:15.2

have something to do with the death of her father.

1:18.4

And whether teaching a group of nine-year-olds for the first time this year might have emerged some big feelings for the nine-year-old for the nine-year-old she once was.

1:27.0

I hope you enjoy listening to our conversation and would love to know whether you come to the

1:31.2

same conclusion we do, but it's hard to feel, but sometimes

1:36.5

it's harder not to.

1:39.6

Hi Rose, how can I help? Hi Emma. Well I wrote in to the podcast because having listened to season

1:46.7

one I started thinking inevitably I think about my own friendships and sort of came to the conclusion

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