S2 / E99 No Escaping Her: Stalking Emily

Strictly Stalking

Society & Culture, True Crime

4.1 • 2.6K Ratings

🗓️ 7 December 2021

⏱️ 59 minutes

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**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains graphic depictions of sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised.** Emily was stalked by her famous ex-girlfriend. At a friend's suggestion, Emily agreed to a blind date with a popular local entertainer who traveled the country. The relationship escalated quickly and before long, the woman who would become Emily's stalker showed up to Emily's home with alcohol and became physically and sexually aggressive. When Emily told her they should take some space, the woman began love bombing her to win her back before her behavior once again turned dangerous. She became verbally abusive, physically violent to herself, and threatened to murder Emily's friends and family. Once Emily tried to end things for good she received death threats, threats of suicide, and calls 24 hours a day from different phone numbers, along with thousands of abusive and threatening texts and over 30 police visits all within a year. The police went to Emily's stalker's home to let her know that she should not contact Emily again...but just as she thought her nightmare was over, Emily woke up early one morning to find her stalker in her bed. Emily eventually obtained a restraining order and then discovered saved emails her stalker had sent to former victims revealing threats almost identical to threats she had made against her. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com RATE US As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083 CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking Instagram: Strictly Stalking https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod Jaimie Beebe https://www.instagram.com/feathergirl77 Jake Deptula https://www.instagram.com/jaked3000 Please consider supporting the companies that support us! Right now Ritual is offering our listeners 10% off your first three months. Visit ritual.com/STALKING and turn healthy habits into a Ritual. Show your skin you care with the Athena Club Razor Kit! Sign up today and you'll get 20% off your first order! Just go to AthenaClub.com and use promo code stalking. Discover a new OUAI of life with cruelty-, sulfate-, and paraben-free hair care, body, and fragrance products from OUAI. Go to THEOUAI.com and use code STRICTLYSTALKING to get 15% off your entire purchase. Save $15 off your first visit with an Apostrophe provider at Apostrophe.com/STALKING when you use our code: STALKING. This code is only available to our listeners. To get started, just go to Apostrophe.com/STALKING and click Begin Visit, then use our code STALKING at sign up and you'll get your first visit for only $5! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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0:00.0	When Emily reached out to the show she wanted to make sure that a case like hers was represented being a lesbian
0:05.2	She hadn't heard a lot of stalking stories that dealt with lesbian relationships
0:10.1	It's hard to see red flags when you're starting relationship
0:12.7	Especially when it's moving along really quickly the fast-paced nature of relationships when you're starting them
0:18.0	Can just feel like excitement, but you tend to overlook certain things
0:21.1	So she wasn't necessarily geared to be objective and necessarily point out the problems that were about to happen
0:27.8	There was a point that she did stop. I still was like how can this be like this feels too easy
0:37.8	Nothing else works like what is what is she up to?
0:41.7	And then I really by the like the third week I really started to kind of settle into the possibility that
0:48.0	it was over and that she was gonna leave me alone and
0:54.2	That's when I
0:56.2	woke up to
0:58.8	See her
1:00.6	lying in my bed
1:11.8	I'm Jamie Bebe and I'm Jake Deptula on today's episode of Strictly Stocking
1:16.0	We're chatting with Emily who is stalked by her ex-girlfriend at a friend suggestion
1:19.8	Emily agreed to a blind date with a popular local entertainer who traveled the country and lived a healthy lifestyle
1:25.1	They met and began dating shortly after although she told Emily she didn't drink and hated the bar scene
1:30.3	She showed up to Emily's place with alcohol and became physically and sexually aggressive when Emily told her they should take some space apart
1:36.5	She began loving her to win her back before her behavior once again turned dangerous
1:40.8	She became verbally abusive physically violent to herself threatened to murder Emily's friends and family and showed up to her job
1:47.1	Once Emily tried to end things she received death threats threats of suicide calls 20 hours a day from different phone numbers
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