S2 / E97 Dangerously Dating: Stalking Jules

Strictly Stalking

Society & Culture, True Crime

4.1 • 2.6K Ratings

🗓️ 23 November 2021

⏱️ 54 minutes

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**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including suicide. Listener discretion is advised.** Jules was stalked by an ex-boyfriend who had a long history of stalking other women. Jules met an attractive, intelligent, and well traveled man who she was immediately drawn to while online dating. After a passionate weekend together, he moved in with her. Over the next couple days Jules began receiving anonymous social media messages revealing her new boyfriend's past history of manipulating and abusing other women. When she confronted him, he told her that the messages probably came from his "crazy ex-girlfriend." She soon discovered that he had created fake dating profiles and that he had kids and a wife that she didn't know about. After Jules asked him to leave, he began sending abusive emails telling her to kill herself. She eventually discovered nude photos he posted of her online. Jules turned to the police and was able to get him charged in a felony case...later discovering that he had stalked many others before her. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals. 1-800-273-8255 DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? E-MAIL US strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com RATE US As a listener of Strictly Stalking please leave a review and rate us FIVE STARS on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083 CHECK OUT OUR PATREON:? www.patreon.com/strictlystalking?? Instagram:?Strictly Stalking https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod ?Jaimie Beebe https://www.instagram.com/feathergirl77 ?Jake Deptula https://www.instagram.com/jaked3000 Please consider supporting the companies that support us! Make this holiday season a little brighter with ShipStation. Use my offer code STALKING to get a 60-day free trial-just enough time to handle the holiday rush! Just go to ShipStation.com, click on the microphone at the top, and enter code STALKING. Right now, our listeners can get 30% off their Betabrand orders when you go to Betabrand.com/STALKING. And when you use our special URL, you're supporting our show, too! Design like a pro with Canva Pro! Right now, you can get a FREE 45-day extended trial when you use my promo code! Just go to Canva.me/STALKING to get your FREE 45-day extended trial. ? Enter TODAY for your chance to win the "Miami Dream House" or other life-changing prizes and experiences at OMAZE.com/stalking. Plus, receive 20 extra entries when you enter code stalking 20.? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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0:00.0	Revenge porn is becoming a very common thing in society in general.
0:04.4	For many stalkers, it's not enough that they harass the victims, but they want to humiliate them
0:10.4	in front of their friends family and possibly the world.
0:12.8	Revenge porn is something that we've dealt with before and we know how terrifying and awful it is
0:18.5	for someone to experience. It's something that's intimate and you know, you don't want that out there.
0:24.4	You definitely don't want something like that on the internet.
0:26.7	What did he want from her? He wanted her attention.
0:29.2	He wanted her affection. When he couldn't get that, he decided to stalk or he decided to
0:33.2	abuser. He used Revenge porn as a way to humiliate her and then sends her emails telling her to kill
0:39.4	herself. So again, it really wasn't just about taunting her. It was taunting everyone else in her
0:47.5	life. Jules Stalker actually had like a whole other life going on. It wasn't even that he was
0:52.4	trying to pursue her to be with her, but he was just doing it to purely be evil.
0:59.6	I woke up one morning at two o'clock in the morning for no reason and I looked over at my phone
1:04.2	and one of my Facebook friends who I've never met in person messaged me and he's like,
1:08.2	hey, this is really awkward, but I think that I found you want a porn site and I was like, what?
1:16.4	He's like, yeah, I'm really sorry. Here's the link and he sent me the link and sure enough, there's
1:22.1	like eight or nine photos of me up there that I know he did because I didn't do that for anybody else.
1:31.2	So like who else did it?
1:33.2	I'm Jamie Beebe. And I'm Jake Debtula. On today's episode of Stalker, we're chatting with Jules,
1:49.3	who was stalked by your ex-boyfriend. After moving back to her hometown, Jules decided to try
1:53.9	online dating. She'd been attractive, intelligent and well-traveled man who she was immediately drawn
1:58.5	to and felt she hit the jackpot. After a whirlwind romance and passionate weekend together, he moved
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