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Strictly Stalking

S2 / E64 Deceived To Conceive: Stalking Victoria

Strictly Stalking

PodcastOne

True Crime, Talk Radio

4.22.5K Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Victoria was stalked by the best friend of her son's father. Victoria survived a tumultuous childhood of her own, and then became pregnant at nineteen. After she discovered the father of her son was cheating on her, she left him and eventually began dating his best friend. Terrified that Victoria was going to leave him, he poked holes in their condoms to try and get her pregnant so she would stay. He immediately became possessive, repeatedly calling her throughout the day, leaving her bizarre and disturbing voicemails, and waiting at her house for her to return home from work. When Victoria discovered she was pregnant and told him she was going to terminate the pregnancy, his behavior turned more erratic...which he blamed on schizophrenia. Check Out Our Patreon: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking Instagram: Strictly Stalking - @strictlystalkingpod Jaimie Beebe - @feathergirl77 Jake Deptula - @jaked3000 Please consider supporting the companies that support us! Visit ThriveCausemetics.com/STALKING for 15% off your first order! This is an exclusive offer you can ONLY get here! Try Warby Parker's free Home Try-On program: Order 5 pairs of glasses to try at home for free for 5 days - there's no obligation to buy! Ships free and includes a pre-paid return shipping label. Try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free at warbyparker.com/stalking. Show your skin you care with the Athena Club Razor Kit! Sign up today and you'll get 20% off your first order! Just go to AthenaClub.com and use promo code stalking. Get your SoulCycle at-home bike TODAY by visiting MySoulCycleBike.com/STALKING, and use promo code STALKING to get a complementary pair of at-home Select cycling shoes with your purchase. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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0:00.0

When we get an email from a guest, the first thing that we want to do is make sure that they're safe and that they have a safe place to tell their story if that's what they want to do.

0:08.7

Victoria was at such a young age very rarely does somebody that young know how to deal with the situation like having a stalker.

0:16.5

In Victoria's email, she told us that she had gone through domestic violence, stalking early pregnancy. There was a lot going on in her story.

0:26.0

So we wanted to help her. She wants to get her story out there so that she can only get help for herself but help others.

0:33.0

I kind of stood back and looked at all this like on a big board in my mind and said there's nobody that's going to believe you.

0:40.0

There is no police officer to see all this stuff and not think that you're just complaining about an ex boyfriend who had a bad breakup with you.

1:00.0

I'm Jamie BB and I'm Jake Deptula. On today's episode of Strictly Stalking, we're chatting with Victoria. We stalked by the best friend of her son's father.

1:08.0

After surviving a tumultuous childhood, Victoria became pregnant at 19 and was forced to drop out of art school.

1:14.0

Victoria discovered that her son's father had been cheating on her and the relationship ended.

1:18.0

Soon after, she connected with her ex's best friend and they started dating.

1:22.0

During the relationship, he would call her many times a day, sometimes leaving disturbing voicemail messages and often awaited at her house unannounced for her to return home from work.

1:30.0

Sensing that she would leave him, he poked holes in their condoms to try to get Victoria pregnant.

1:35.0

When she found out she was accidentally pregnant and decided to terminate the pregnancy, his behavior turned erratic and he blamed it on schizophrenia.

1:42.0

When Victoria finally broke up with him and started to reconcile with the father of her son, her stalker left her a pair of boxing gloves with a note that said, I'll fight for you.

1:50.0

Victoria, thank you for joining us today.

1:52.0

Thank you for giving me an opportunity to speak about this guy.

1:55.0

Absolutely. So Victoria, tell us a little bit about your upbringing.

1:59.0

I grew up on a 10 acre flower farm, my parents were a horticulturist, my mom was living for us.

2:06.0

They were very hardworking people but didn't have a lot of time for children and there was 30-year age gap.

2:12.0

I grew up as my mom being a semi-functional alcoholic and my dad not really being there.

2:17.0

I had a brother who eventually got into drugs and has an overdose of the age of I can't get up more weapons.

2:24.0

That same year, it's the year that I gave birth to my first son.

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