S19E6: The Secret To Attraction w/ Mat Boggs

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 1 October 2024

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

We're not talking about what to wear or how to look, but rather how to elude that contagious energy that just attracts someone to you. And what better expert than Mat Boggs, who shares his own turning point and all the knowledge he's gained in his 20+ years of dating coaching. We're discussing the turn offs and turn ons that either kill attraction or spark it, how to understand what type of vibe you're sending on a date, and ways you can build attraction not just in the early stages – but for a lifetime. To learn more about Mat, visit https://www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/ and check out his YouTube channel @MatBoggs Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Finding Your Person is now OPEN! Registration closes 10/6 so get your spot now: findingyourperson.com Our Sponsors: * Anisa Beauty: Get 30% off site-wide at www.anisabeauty.com using the code DATEABLE * Artifact Uprising: Get 20% off for new customers or 15% off if you have purchased before at artifactuprising.com and use code DATEABLE through December 31. * Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST * Happy Mammoth: Get 15% off on your entire first order of Hormone Harmony at happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Magic Mind: Get 48% off your first subscription or 20% off one time purchases at https://magicmind.com/dateable with code DATEABLE * Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLEPODCAST * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Rosetta Stone: Get 50% off lifetime access at www.rosettastone.com/today with the code TODAY * VIIA Hemp: Check out their new High THCA Flower and get 15% off your favorite gummies using the code DATEABLE at https://bit.ly/viiadataeable Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating insiders.
0:06.3	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.9	Welcome to Datable. Hello friends.
0:20.0	Welcome back to another episode of Datable.
0:23.3	We want to hug you right now, but we can't.
0:26.2	We could.
0:26.7	We can give you an over the audio hug.
0:29.8	I don't know how that works.
0:30.9	Do you feel it?
0:31.9	I feel it. Energy. You know I feel like the whole shift because
0:36.5	you A and I are clearly in different locations. We do this over video, over Riverside, virtual recording, but it does feel like I'm with you.
0:45.8	When we actually meet other experts, it's like, oh, we're meeting, it's like, we're not really.
0:50.8	I think COVID really just like reshaped what meeting and virtual this meant. Yeah, we're still on the same
0:57.2	planet so I still feel your energetic being through the airways. I don't know. There's something there, but energy though is one of those I guess topics that recently got surfaced in dating.
1:13.0	Like we used to be about like how you dress and how you act and how you talk.
1:18.0	Now it's all about energy and vibe.
1:20.0	Like when we think about attraction, which is kind of the topic which is the topic not kind of topic for today
1:26.7	Energy is part of the attraction but I feel like it's so new to the equation that people don't think about it still. I would say it's
1:34.9	probably 80 percent. Like of course there's like a baseline of certain qualities
1:40.4	that you're looking for we all have lists, we all have something on there. We're not going to pretend like that doesn't exist.
1:48.0	But I do think that someone can have all the right things on paper. I mean this is the problem with dating apps right is you
1:54.4	see someone's profile they look good and then you meet them in person and there's no connection,
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