S16E3: The Real Red Flags to Look Out For w/Ebele Onyema from OneLove

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 1 March 2023

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

We often throw up the red flag card, but how can we make sure we are focused on actual red flags that may lead to unhealthy relationships? We're diving in with Ebele Onyema from the OneLove Foundation about signs of unhealthy behaviors in relationships and how they can show up subtly in early dating. We discuss the line that makes a behavior unhealthy (or even abusive), how you talk to a friend whether it's you or them in the situation, and what green flags to look out for that make for healthy relationships. TW: We discuss both physically and emotionally abusive relationships Learn more about The One Love foundation (and get their free guides to healthy & unhealthy relationships) at JoinOneLove.org Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard This episode is sponsored by: One Love Foundation: visit JoinOneLove.org, a national non-profit dedicated to ending relationship abuse, and learn to spot the signs of unhealthy AND healthy relationship behaviors. Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm U.S. Schu. And I'm Julie Kraftchik. We are active daters turned dating sociologists.
0:06.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:10.6	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:16.0	Hello friends, welcome to another episode of the dateable podcast.
0:21.0	We are here for another week to indulge in all that is modern dating because we can never
0:26.9	get enough of it even if we're not dating ourselves.
0:30.4	Never get enough of it.
0:31.4	You know after seven years you would think that we'd run out of topics, but they always present themselves all the time.
0:38.3	And you know, this episode, I'm really excited about this one because we've been a partner with One Love Foundation for quite a while.
0:46.8	You've probably heard us reference them.
0:49.1	They are a non-profit that helps you navigate if your relationship is healthy or unhealthy and ultimately helps if you find yourself in a situation of abuse.
1:00.0	So we are all for their content. It's totally free. It's such a great resource.
1:05.0	And we wanted to have Abella, one of their team members, come on the podcast to talk about the real red flags we should be looking for.
1:14.0	Because we know that red flags is such a hot topic.
1:17.0	Ironically, both UA and I are both wearing red right this minute
1:20.0	as we do this intro.
1:22.0	Unplanned.
1:23.0	Orange, orange red.
1:24.0	So we are in the red flag theme for all intents of purposes.
1:28.0	But we had an episode last season,
1:30.0	capture the red flag that was...
1:32.0	Was that last season? Yeah, season 15 episode 8
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