S16E2: Sex Talks w/ Vanessa & Xander Marin

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 22 February 2023

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

It's getting hot in here – as we chat about sex, intimacy, and why talking about sex could be the key to having the love life you've always wanted. Whether you wish you were having more or happy with the way things are, single or partnered up – it doesn't matter – we're diving into it all with sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander. We discuss what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors for couples, how to talk about sex in early dating without being creepy, and why talking about sex doesn't have to be scary (and can actually be sexy!). Learn more about Vanessa and Xander at: https://sextalksbook.com/ and check out their book 'Sex Talks: The 5 conversations that will transform your love life' today. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard This episode is sponsored by: One Love Foundation: visit JoinOneLove.org, a national non-profit dedicated to ending relationship abuse, and learn to spot the signs of unhealthy AND healthy relationship behaviors. BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm U.S. Schu. And I'm Julie Craft Chick. This is the dateable
0:04.2	podcast where we dive into everything about modern dating and
0:08.1	relationships. Welcome to the show.
0:10.6	Hi, Datables.
0:15.0	Welcome to another episode of Datable Podcast.
0:18.0	Have we all recovered from all the candy we had from Valentine's Day last week.
0:24.0	I may have eaten my big box that I got in three days.
0:29.4	Not proud of that moment.
0:31.6	But I haven't gone for half off candy yet.
0:34.0	I haven't either.
0:35.0	Yeah, I need to get on that train.
0:37.0	I went to my parents' house the day before Valentine's Day.
0:41.0	My mom had the little candy hearts. I haven't seen those in years like since grade school and I asked her where she got it and she said I was hoping you should be like your dad.
0:57.0	Yeah. I know just some real estate agent. See love comes from everywhere.
1:02.0	Even real estate agents.
1:04.0	Especially when you're trying to make some money from house sales.
1:07.0	Exactly.
1:08.0	Love bombing all the way.
1:10.0	How was your V-day?
1:12.0	It was good. I'm actually continuing it this weekend. So this is before I'm going.
1:18.0	We're doing this intro right before, so we're doing a belated dinner when, you things quiet down a little but we actually did in the middle of the week it was Tuesday as you all know this year we did gifts and I was super cheesy I can share what I did I have been waiting for a moment that I can let my cheese flag why.
1:38.0	Oh boy. I don't know how I feel about cheese flag but yeah wave that cheese flag.
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