Compatibility based upon the Webster Dictionary basically means that two things that exist without conflict.

And the last time I checked in no relationship, do you ever find a relationship that has no conflict, right?

If you see marriage as a goal more than you see it as a calling, then you're already up a creek without the paddle, right?

Like, it's like you're doing exactly what the devil wants.

If your marriage doesn't make people want to know Jesus, then you aren't doing it right.

You know what I'm saying?

Everyone's putting their BFF best foot forward in the dating process.

BFF best foot forward.

But if I put your life on mute and I only looked at your actions over the past week,

I feel like that paints the picture I need to know.

God called you to have a wife first before a pastor.

Like, dang, like, yeah, you can see her preaching the ministries with you, but like, bro,

do you want to have sex with her?

Do you want to be with her?

We've been told to look for chemistry and compatibility, but what if the key to a godly, key emphasis, godly, lasting marriage,

isn't who you click with, but is who you're called to. And just to cut through the Christianese,

let's do that today. We got our boy, Jamal Miller. Can you help us unpack that question of suitability versus compatibility? Man, we're so honored to have you on here.

We love you, bro.

Man, I love you guys. You know, I'm for y'all.

I love everything that God is doing through you.

How y'all are continuing to serve singles is just very, very admirable

because I just know that many people, you know, are having a hard time, you know, continuing to support singles. It kind of just a lot of past. There's a lot of leaders just like, hey, y'all just keep bowling and keep doing your thing waiting on God, but y'all are getting in there and really trying to figure out what God is doing, what the real problems are. And I'm just really, really excited to see how God continues to use y'all. So thank y'all

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