S15E8: Capture the (red) flag

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 5 October 2022

⏱️ 74 minutes

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We're diving head first into all the red flags, dealbreakers, and straight-up annoyances while dating — and determining when to be curious vs. run. We're chatting with Janice about how she missed some serious red flags in her last relationship and how she's approaching dating now. We discuss the true definition of a red flag and how it's often misused, how to handle any signs of an unhealthy relationship, and why it's important to look for green flags instead of going on a red flag hunt while dating. Register now for our 22-day dating app challenge that is re-released just in time for cuffing season! Get your spot now before it's too late: https://www.findingyourperson.com/apps Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: One Love Foundation: visit JoinOneLove.org, a national non-profit dedicated to ending relationship abuse, and learn to spot the signs of unhealthy AND healthy relationship behaviors. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts,
0:14.3	date fails to diaper fetishes,
0:16.0	and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.3	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You'll also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy datable world.
0:28.1	Hey datables, welcome to this week's episode of the dateable
0:35.2	podcast where we want to ask why? Why are things happening the way they are in
0:40.4	dating and then how do we make dating better right you can only bitch and complain as
0:46.0	much as you can but if we're not taking action to make it better then what's the point right
0:52.1	and we have the topic today.
0:54.0	I feel like that is a perfect example of that.
0:57.0	We love throwing the word red flag around.
1:00.0	I feel like, I feel like if we could get a dollar for every time someone said red fly we'd be freaking
1:05.5	stinking rich at this point but I feel like where it comes from is good intent like to us, to not get ahead of ourselves, to make sure
1:15.3	we're making the right choice. But then the way it's used is another story. So I'm really
1:20.7	excited about this episode because I think, know the concept of red flags is important because
1:26.4	Sometimes we complain about being single we complain about not being in a relationship
1:30.9	But I think the worst thing is to be in a bad relationship.
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