S15E19: Relational Intelligence w/ Dr. Adam Bandelli

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 21 December 2022

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Move over EQ, we're shifting from emotional intelligence to relational intelligence as we chat with Dr. Adam Bandelli about why mastering relational intelligence is the #1 thing you need to focus on while dating. We discuss the 5 essential skills for building long-lasting, life-changing romantic connections, why developing rapport is more important than establishing chemistry, and how relational intelligence plays into all aspects of a relationship from when we meet to 30 years down the line. Learn more about Adam: https://bandelliandassociates.com/ and check out his book 'Relational Intelligence' today. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Kensington Books: Check out Kensington's newest title Colorado Country by New York Times bestselling author Diana Palmer. You can find it wherever books are sold or visit kensingtonbooks.com OMGYES: Have better sex and relationships with a membership to OMGYES. Visit omgyes.com/dateable for special discounts. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts,
0:14.3	date fails to diaper fetishes,
0:16.0	and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.3	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You'll also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:32.1	Happy holidays.
0:33.6	Datables, welcome to another episode of the Datable Podcast.
0:37.1	This is a huge holiday week for everyone.
0:39.8	So everyone's gearing up for celebrations and lots of eating and merriment.
0:44.5	Yeah, the best part of the holidays. I still can't believe it's December.
0:49.2	I just feel like this year has flown by. Flown by, but I'm excited for the holidays.
0:55.0	Technically, Hanukkah is starting on Monday,
0:59.0	so yesterday as this is going out.
1:02.0	And I'm gearing up to go to Florida tomorrow.
1:05.0	So I'll be in Florida, then New York, so we're doing the double hitter of relatives.
1:11.0	So we're going to my partner's mom's house first, then my
1:14.4	brother's house and my parents are coming in, and then we're going to my
1:18.3	uncle's house in New York City, so we're hitting it all. I call this the
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