S15E12: Are You Sabotaging Your Love Life? w/ Dr. Raquel Peel

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 2 November 2022

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

From early dating to reaching certain milestones of relationships, we can all put up our armor of self-protection in ways that actually hurt us in the long haul. We’re chatting with Dr. Raquel Peel about her research and personal experience as a recovering romantic self-saboteur. We discuss why we self-sabotage even the best of relationships, signs to watch out for including the four horsemen of the apocalypse, and how to get out of this cycle that's getting in your own way. Learn more about Raquel's research: https://www.raquelpeel.com/ and watch her TEDx talk: youtube.com/watch?v=kpIbl34SPNc&feature=youtu.be Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Happy Healthy Hippie: Get 50% off your first subscription when you visit happyhealthyhippie.com/dateable Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts,
0:14.3	date fails to diaper fetishes,
0:16.0	and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.3	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You'll also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy datable world.
0:28.1	Hello, lovely dateables. Welcome to a brand new episode of the
0:36.8	dateable podcast. We are you a and Julie as we've mentioned we are like
0:40.9	your dating sharpas. we all could use a dating
0:43.4	shirt but we're happy to be yours as we navigate through this crazy but
0:47.3	wonderful dating world that we're in you know it's funny when we first use the
0:51.4	dating shirpus term we used it for the sounding board and we had the
0:56.2	alpacas as our you know mascot because we're thinking I don't know that's what like came to mind for us
1:02.1	and I found this
1:02.9	Tik-Toc video the other day that was like how did I know that my girlfriend was the
1:07.4	one for me and it was basically just like this sea of alpacas and one of them
1:11.6	just staring like googly eyed at him.
1:14.1	Oh.
1:15.1	I sent it to my partner and I'm like, this is how you know.
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